so yea i was talking to this girl for a while now and we seem to like
each other now and we got to talking about dating and her mother will
only allow her to court and for those who don't know courting means
dating but with hope to marriage and dating like hanging out at the
house kind of thing and yes we're both 18 so you see the childish act.
but she respect her mother and listens to everything she says and shes a
big christian girl which is nice you don't find much of them anymore but
is courting a good idea or not i'm looking for a wife to have one day i
just don't know if its her and i can't date her unless its courting so
some help please and this will all take about 4 years before a descion
will be made so i'll be out of college if i can afford it and move there
so what do you all think?

lOL OMG IS SHE AMISH????

Take it slow, and get to know her, her family, etc.
Goto the house on staurdays help her father with yard work, go out with
her dad to shoot pool or just to get to know him and allow him to know
you so he Trusts you with his dauhter.spend time playing board games or
cards with them.

As time progresses and you know she likes you maybe 6 months into
relationship, take your parents and hers with you out for dinner, and
you treat.

hope this helps

Dont walk shugar..............RUN!!!
You would not only be dating this lil lady but her MOTHER TOO!

she is only going to have a lasting relationship with other crisitians
who believe the same. I knew a girl that was like that she could only
attrack stalkers with her so called vow of abstnance, I told her she
should of took a vow of silence.. so ya it will work if your beliefes
are the same and your in to the church. so ya it will work if you dont
mind just hanging out and watching her thats what I do
good luck
Phill

MCKEACHIE YOU ARE FREAKING ME OUT!!!

hey kojack what do i do if her father is in prison and on death row
should i still go there and meet him in prison or should i make her
mother feel that she could trust me

rubyderrick do wat u feel in your heart if u really want to know her do
wat the mom asks. if u dont and feel its a waste of time move on. but be
honest with urself and her.

grypsy you know what freacks me out mazes try this one
http://www.killsometime.com/Games/Game.asp?ID=428 looks easy
phill

walks in looks around

prison

murder

courting

turns and gets out as fast as i can
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggggggggg