she's a big girl and she's had a skinny friend that encouraged her to dress in skimpy outfits all the time. dressing like that attracts the wrong kind of attention. she complains that she can't find a decent guy who'll treat her well, but then she goes out showing everything that she's got.
if she wants a decent guy, she's going to have to behave and dress like a decent girl.


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Give this Gentleman the Gold Ring!!!

I think there is a lot of truth in this. Gals who dress like hoochies might get a lot of "play" but no serious interest.

actually i think thats true now all the women in the world might gang up on me here but i have to say it. if you act respectable you will get respectable attention its only right. i mean a bit of skin is ok were in 2009 but showin everythin you got now thats just wrong. but saying that if i woke up looking like beyonce knowles you can just forget everything i just said lol

i don't believe in the "if you've got it, flaunt it" philosophy. yeah, i like a girl with a rockin body, but when i'm getting to know her or when we're out on the town, i don't want to be distracted by my carnal desires. i want to enjoy her company, not have "can we just get the night over with and get to business" runnin through my head. there's something to be said for letting a fire burn slowly.


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There's a line that is crossed, however in determining just how brutally honest you want to be. If this g/f rips on the guy for how he dresses, then realistically why should the b/f not equally be able to offer the same criticism if it is deserved? So really it all depends how she treats him.

I would hope that I already know that I look terrible before I asked....but yeah...lie to me PLEASE!!

yes its true people who rush into things to easily never get what there looking for because there is nothing there apart from that

your funny

But it's true!!

If I understood women's fashion I would be a woman, as I can hardly dress myself.
If it were truly hideous, I might say that outfit doesn't flatter you particularly, perhaps a different shirt might better.

Hey she's my partner and I love her even if she looks like a moose, but I would tell her what I see like I hope she will tell me when she looks at me what she sees.

If I'm to much of a baby to take the truth then i should stay alone.

moose love ? sorry I no can luv no mooses senor'!

moose love thats a good one lol

..i think honesty is important,but not to the point of being hurtful...so you tell her she looks like a small moose,or baby water buffalo..but if'n your wantin' to get laid,you do what most men have done for eons...lie like a dog.... ..just don't forget to turn out the lights first..

And make sure her antlers don't tear that bag you have to put over her face!

She has a mirror or at least looks into a mirror. I'm sure she notices it. Then when ask me, I would say, hon, the dress is awesome, but you deserve something a lot better.

Good answer Atlantis

believe me sometimes women can get it sooooooo wrong i went through a stage where i would wear everything at once and i thought it was really good layering i was so wrong so so wrong. its always good to get a second opinion from someone you trust or if there is nobody to hand just go on the street and ask a passing man. if he likes what he sees you know your in with a chance of pulling when you head out. and yes i have done that but i didnt pull, i chose the wrong shoes and and to sit in the corner all night because i just couldnt walk lol