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Topic: for the people
PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:00 PM
I keep hearing that hooking up with psycho types. I am wondering don't they come with tell tale red flags? If so what do you all think they are?

bedlum1's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:00 PM

Those are the worst of all!!::heart:
rofl can i have a pity f¤€k please? anybody?..lmaorofl rofl

bedlum1's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:02 PM

I keep hearing that hooking up with psycho types. I am wondering don't they come with tell tale red flags? If so what do you all think they are?
not normaly they gotta get comfortable with you first

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:03 PM


Those are the worst of all!!::heart:
rofl can i have a pity f¤€k please? anybody?..lmaorofl rofl




laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

bedlum1's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:06 PM



Those are the worst of all!!::heart:
rofl can i have a pity f¤€k please? anybody?..lmaorofl rofl




laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
love your sense of humor..drinker flowerforyou rofl

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:08 PM
Well maybe that IS the first sign they want to get comfortable with you too fast. Even if someone makes my heart pound like a base drum I am not making them comfortable especially in my space right up front.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:15 PM
When did Dr phil get red hair

kaadeshka's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:19 PM
That's wonderful! Complaining about the opposite gender thing can be a huge turnoff- for friend finding or more.

Thanks for pointing it out! flowerforyou


(leaves to think about how to undo the "complaining *****" syndrome.
Haha, that works out to CBS)

bedlum1's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:21 PM

When did Dr phil get red hair
blond..the lighting sucked...lol..
no doc phil..just pay attention to life as i go alongdrinker

bedlum1's photo
Sun 10/25/09 05:23 PM

That's wonderful! Complaining about the opposite gender thing can be a huge turnoff- for friend finding or more.

Thanks for pointing it out! flowerforyou


(leaves to think about how to undo the "complaining *****" syndrome.
Haha, that works out to CBS)
lol..enjoy lifedrinker

PacificStar48's photo
Sun 10/25/09 06:07 PM
^5 to the "Enjoying life' but some mistakes are worth avoiding if one can. I have gotten where I see certain signs that make me back away from people and after looking back and seeing how those things affected the future of those people I was pretty glad I steered clear.

bedlum1's photo
Sun 10/25/09 06:17 PM

^5 to the "Enjoying life' but some mistakes are worth avoiding if one can. I have gotten where I see certain signs that make me back away from people and after looking back and seeing how those things affected the future of those people I was pretty glad I steered clear.
to often we confuse what we consider signs with our baggage..best to do an inventory of our bags then we have a better idea of what we're dealing with

no photo
Sun 10/25/09 08:12 PM

i see so many posts,,women bitchin about men, men bitchin about women, and lumping all of them in the same catagory because they're bitter over past hurts..
the truth is its not man or women its people...theres plenty of good men and women out there..and theres lots of a~@holes (men & women )
the worlds full of them...
it what/who we choose that reflects how we are on the inside...if i dont really like me, i end up with a psycho gf, because thats what i attract


so true...

As with everything in life - there is good and bad.

When I was in my early 20's I had a few bad relationships. After the second one ended I thought "What is wrong with me that I put up with this stuff?" Swore off men/dating until I figured it all out...wasn't easy to take a long hard look at who we are, what we are about....but honestly it was one of the best times of my life...which led to the best relationship that lasted for 12 years.

When you truly love the person YOU are, you simply do not allow anyone in your life that shouldn't be there...because it is better to be alone and wait for the good relationship than settle for one that is wrong.

Life is way too short and precious to spend it whinning about much of anything...


"If you don't like something, change it; If you can't change it, change the way you think about it."
:wink:

FearandLoathing's photo
Sun 10/25/09 09:51 PM

i see so many posts,,women bitchin about men, men bitchin about women, and lumping all of them in the same catagory because they're bitter over past hurts..
the truth is its not man or women its people...theres plenty of good men and women out there..and theres lots of a~@holes (men & women )
the worlds full of them...
it what/who we choose that reflects how we are on the inside...if i dont really like me, i end up with a psycho gf, because thats what i attract


The flawed law of attraction, really has no logical merit to it...but whatever...

no photo
Sun 10/25/09 09:53 PM


i see so many posts,,women bitchin about men, men bitchin about women, and lumping all of them in the same catagory because they're bitter over past hurts..
the truth is its not man or women its people...theres plenty of good men and women out there..and theres lots of a~@holes (men & women )
the worlds full of them...
it what/who we choose that reflects how we are on the inside...if i dont really like me, i end up with a psycho gf, because thats what i attract


so true...

As with everything in life - there is good and bad.

When I was in my early 20's I had a few bad relationships. After the second one ended I thought "What is wrong with me that I put up with this stuff?" Swore off men/dating until I figured it all out...wasn't easy to take a long hard look at who we are, what we are about....but honestly it was one of the best times of my life...which led to the best relationship that lasted for 12 years.

When you truly love the person YOU are, you simply do not allow anyone in your life that shouldn't be there...because it is better to be alone and wait for the good relationship than settle for one that is wrong.

Life is way too short and precious to spend it whinning about much of anything...


"If you don't like something, change it; If you can't change it, change the way you think about it."
:wink:


drinker

no photo
Sun 10/25/09 11:23 PM

so take care of yourself,
learn to let go of that baggage that keeps you finding the same type of jerk


Yeppers!flowerforyou

Shasta1's photo
Sun 10/25/09 11:58 PM


i see so many posts,,women bitchin about men, men bitchin about women, and lumping all of them in the same catagory because they're bitter over past hurts..
the truth is its not man or women its people...theres plenty of good men and women out there..and theres lots of a~@holes (men & women )
the worlds full of them...
it what/who we choose that reflects how we are on the inside...if i dont really like me, i end up with a psycho gf, because thats what i attract


so true...

As with everything in life - there is good and bad.

When I was in my early 20's I had a few bad relationships. After the second one ended I thought "What is wrong with me that I put up with this stuff?" Swore off men/dating until I figured it all out...wasn't easy to take a long hard look at who we are, what we are about....but honestly it was one of the best times of my life...which led to the best relationship that lasted for 12 years.

When you truly love the person YOU are, you simply do not allow anyone in your life that shouldn't be there...because it is better to be alone and wait for the good relationship than settle for one that is wrong.

Life is way too short and precious to spend it whinning about much of anything...


"If you don't like something, change it; If you can't change it, change the way you think about it."
:wink:

:thumbsup:

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