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Topic: Is meeting someone really this tough?
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Sun 10/25/09 01:35 AM

I can't stand having to stand in line to return something..



sooooooooooooooooo what are "heats"... waiting, waiting...



Not sure we will ever find out what heats are laugh drinker laugh

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Sun 10/25/09 01:38 AM
by tomorrow he'll answer, he's probably asleep..

Ok I'm going to watch a movie and might fall asleep... flowerforyou

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Sun 10/25/09 01:38 AM

by tomorrow he'll answer, he's probably asleep..

Ok I'm going to watch a movie and might fall asleep... flowerforyou



I am leaving to, have a good night flowerforyou

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Sun 10/25/09 01:42 AM



to me its called give a guy or girl a chance and quit being so picky. because the guy or girl you may thing that uh may be a loser or not your type just maybe be the one for you . but o well who am i to say.

remember a lot of us guys have heats and are not all jerk offs. but who am i to judge. the only thing i have to say is good luck to all.


I don't know if I would word it exactly that way but I think you are on the right track. So many people want the ideal person and that just is not realistic. People do dumb stuff and aren't mind readers.


"People do dumb stuff and aren't mind readers". what


So often people say mean things, forget something, or think that someone who has know idea what your experiences are don't have a clue what the big deal is.

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Sun 10/25/09 02:25 AM


I can't stand having to stand in line to return something..



sooooooooooooooooo what are "heats"... waiting, waiting...



Not sure we will ever find out what heats are laugh drinker laugh



laugh He meant "hearts".flowerforyou

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Sun 10/25/09 03:45 AM

It's the way it is. You just have to keep pluging away at it. Persistance. :-)

whoa scared rofl

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Sun 10/25/09 04:18 AM
Its a multi-factorial process.

Finding someone that attracts you.
Where?
Work, school, bar, church, social events, places you go, places where you do the things you like to do.

Then What?
Interact with them, talk with them, decide to get to know them better.

Date?
Dinner, drinks, lunch, movies, picnics, social events, activities that you both may enjoy...

Pursue further or not.

And add in the amount of time it takes, distance, age differences, personal preferences-Yours and theirs. Money, kids, ex's, life schedules.

No one said it was easy, if it was. we would all be in successful happy relationships.

The internet is just another way to look around for someone who might interest you.

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Sun 10/25/09 05:54 AM




Things have changed.. The internet makes dating like shopping.. Why just buy the first thing you see? Now we have time to window shop and really think about what we may or may not want.. Is it a wise purchase or is it a spontaneous purchase that we'll regret the next day?


Maybe we can return it the next day laugh smokin


I'm a shopaholic, I always regret the next day... laugh


I always return the things I regret buying :smile:





They end up hanging in my closet for years collecting dust.shocked surprised

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Sun 10/25/09 06:05 AM
Meeting someone really is not tough at all!!

Unless you make it tough for yourself or the other person!!

I have met lots of great men

And women!!


The innocence part!!

At our age ....??

Well. I said enough:heart:

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Sun 10/25/09 06:09 AM

Why is dating and meeting someone so tough? Just isn't like it used to be when I was younger....what happened to the innocence of it all?


We have grown and know better, no more innocence.

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