Topic: Is Love A Need Or A Desire?
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Sat 10/24/09 11:24 AM
Edited by daytime on Sat 10/24/09 11:25 AM




:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:


It's like a stegosaurus -- it would be nice to have but it doesn't seem to exist anymore....





There is something that keeps people together or at least they keep trying in many cases to find love. If the word love is outdated what new word would you use?

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Sat 10/24/09 11:28 AM





:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:


It's like a stegosaurus -- it would be nice to have but it doesn't seem to exist anymore....





There is something that keeps people together or at least they keep trying in many cases to find love. If the word love is outdated what new word would you use?


I can only speak from personal experience -- I have no clue what keeps other people together. All I can tell you is that all of the people who claimed to "love" me were, in the end, totally dishonest. I see little point in looking for something that has been repeatedly proven to be nothing more than a deception, at best.

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Sat 10/24/09 11:44 AM






:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:


It's like a stegosaurus -- it would be nice to have but it doesn't seem to exist anymore....





There is something that keeps people together or at least they keep trying in many cases to find love. If the word love is outdated what new word would you use?


I can only speak from personal experience -- I have no clue what keeps other people together. All I can tell you is that all of the people who claimed to "love" me were, in the end, totally dishonest. I see little point in looking for something that has been repeatedly proven to be nothing more than a deception, at best.



Sorry to hear of the problems you have had with dishonesty and disceptions. Maybe not time to give up yetflowerforyou

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Sat 10/24/09 11:45 AM

I'm going to have to go with Lex on this one.
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Sat 10/24/09 11:46 AM




:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:



I dunno, but for $19.95, plus five cents each additional minute, Miss Cleo can probably tell ya.


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Sat 10/24/09 11:46 AM






Love is like a butth*le, everybody needs somedrinker
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Sat 10/24/09 11:47 AM

Everyone has a love for something or someone. Love is a natural emotion. I believe it is a need.
flowers

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Sat 10/24/09 11:50 AM





:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:


It's like a stegosaurus -- it would be nice to have but it doesn't seem to exist anymore....





There is something that keeps people together or at least they keep trying in many cases to find love. If the word love is outdated what new word would you use?
flowerforyou

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Sat 10/24/09 11:52 AM






:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:


It's like a stegosaurus -- it would be nice to have but it doesn't seem to exist anymore....





There is something that keeps people together or at least they keep trying in many cases to find love. If the word love is outdated what new word would you use?


I can only speak from personal experience -- I have no clue what keeps other people together. All I can tell you is that all of the people who claimed to "love" me were, in the end, totally dishonest. I see little point in looking for something that has been repeatedly proven to be nothing more than a deception, at best.

:thumbsup:

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Sat 10/24/09 12:03 PM







:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:


It's like a stegosaurus -- it would be nice to have but it doesn't seem to exist anymore....





There is something that keeps people together or at least they keep trying in many cases to find love. If the word love is outdated what new word would you use?


I can only speak from personal experience -- I have no clue what keeps other people together. All I can tell you is that all of the people who claimed to "love" me were, in the end, totally dishonest. I see little point in looking for something that has been repeatedly proven to be nothing more than a deception, at best.



Sorry to hear of the problems you have had with dishonesty and disceptions. Maybe not time to give up yetflowerforyou
flowers

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Sat 10/24/09 12:10 PM





:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:



I dunno, but for $19.95, plus five cents each additional minute, Miss Cleo can probably tell ya.


lol
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Sat 10/24/09 12:18 PM


I can only speak from personal experience -- I have no clue what keeps other people together. All I can tell you is that all of the people who claimed to "love" me were, in the end, totally dishonest. I see little point in looking for something that has been repeatedly proven to be nothing more than a deception, at best.


Sorry to hear of the problems you have had with dishonesty and deceptions. Maybe not time to give up yetflowerforyou
flowers


nicely put mirror flowerforyou

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Sat 10/24/09 12:23 PM



I can only speak from personal experience -- I have no clue what keeps other people together. All I can tell you is that all of the people who claimed to "love" me were, in the end, totally dishonest. I see little point in looking for something that has been repeatedly proven to be nothing more than a deception, at best.


Sorry to hear of the problems you have had with dishonesty and deceptions. Maybe not time to give up yetflowerforyou
flowers


nicely put mirror flowerforyou
bigsmile thank youflowerforyou

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Sat 10/24/09 12:25 PM
Romantic love is a desire, not a need; you won't die without it- even though many people have convinced themselves otherwise. There's a difference in affection and love, as someone pointed out about babies who do not thrive without affection. I can give someone physical affection without love, I don't even have to like them. I used to work as a substitute teacher and a daycare worker and I was affectionate with the children as far as giving hugs and praise, but that doesn't constitute love, of course. It was simply human compassion.

I agree that many people need to feel a part of a group, whether it's family, friends or some organization, but this is not love, not by my definition anyway. It's more of a need of acceptance and belonging to something larger than yourself, but no, I do not believe love is a need.

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Sat 10/24/09 12:36 PM

Romantic love is a desire, not a need; you won't die without it- even though many people have convinced themselves otherwise. There's a difference in affection and love, as someone pointed out about babies who do not thrive without affection. I can give someone physical affection without love, I don't even have to like them. I used to work as a substitute teacher and a daycare worker and I was affectionate with the children as far as giving hugs and praise, but that doesn't constitute love, of course. It was simply human compassion.

I agree that many people need to feel a part of a group, whether it's family, friends or some organization, but this is not love, not by my definition anyway. It's more of a need of acceptance and belonging to something larger than yourself, but no, I do not believe love is a need.
bigsmile wowdrinker good answerhappy You really put some thought into thisflowerforyou

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Sat 10/24/09 12:37 PM


Romantic love is a desire, not a need; you won't die without it- even though many people have convinced themselves otherwise. There's a difference in affection and love, as someone pointed out about babies who do not thrive without affection. I can give someone physical affection without love, I don't even have to like them. I used to work as a substitute teacher and a daycare worker and I was affectionate with the children as far as giving hugs and praise, but that doesn't constitute love, of course. It was simply human compassion.

I agree that many people need to feel a part of a group, whether it's family, friends or some organization, but this is not love, not by my definition anyway. It's more of a need of acceptance and belonging to something larger than yourself, but no, I do not believe love is a need.
bigsmile wowdrinker good answerhappy You really put some thought into thisflowerforyou


Thanks.flowerforyou

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Sat 10/24/09 12:38 PM
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Sat 10/24/09 12:44 PM



:heart: Is love a need or a desire?:heart:


Well it might be a desire but if I ever get where I don't have that desire you might as well pull the plug on my needs because there is nothing left of me but a shell.

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Sat 10/24/09 12:50 PM



Romantic love is a desire, not a need; you won't die without it- even though many people have convinced themselves otherwise. There's a difference in affection and love, as someone pointed out about babies who do not thrive without affection. I can give someone physical affection without love, I don't even have to like them. I used to work as a substitute teacher and a daycare worker and I was affectionate with the children as far as giving hugs and praise, but that doesn't constitute love, of course. It was simply human compassion.

I agree that many people need to feel a part of a group, whether it's family, friends or some organization, but this is not love, not by my definition anyway. It's more of a need of acceptance and belonging to something larger than yourself, but no, I do not believe love is a need.
bigsmile wowdrinker good answerhappy You really put some thought into thisflowerforyou


Thanks.flowerforyou
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Sat 10/24/09 12:51 PM

good
:thumbsup: ok:thumbsup: