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| Topic: Can you do a home date for your first date? | |
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Always wondered about this, is it totally outrageously wrong for your first date to be at your place or theirs? Or must it be "neutral ground." I like to go against the status quo every now and then, just to mix things up, but is that really so wrong? I know why most dates are on "neutral ground," I just wondered if you could successfully challenge this standard.
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see
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there's nothing wrong with it...but for me personally...
rather be in public for the 1st date...idk the person well enuff to be @ their place yet *shruggs* 
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My first date with my ex was at my place
I cooked him dinner We relaxed and watched television It was very comfortable and nice We both enjoyed it! 
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see pats we'd all go to your house and you prolly got all patriot stuff in your basement..a man cave, right?? |
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see pats we'd all go to your house and you prolly got all patriot stuff in your basement..a man cave, right?? Not yet , but that is in the works 
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see pats we'd all go to your house and you prolly got all patriot stuff in your basement..a man cave, right?? Not yet , but that is in the works 
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My first date with my ex was at my place I cooked him dinner We relaxed and watched television It was very comfortable and nice We both enjoyed it! Cool! So it can be done, even if it goes against the status quo. I've done it three times myself, and it always worked out. People can sometimes be more comfortable in a home setting, than say a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop. Just make sure there's something fun to do while you're at their place or they're at yours.
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see pats we'd all go to your house and you prolly got all patriot stuff in your basement..a man cave, right?? Not yet , but that is in the works All 4 walls in my study/writing room are a Boston Bruins & NHL freakin shrine.  
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Always wondered about this, is it totally outrageously wrong for your first date to be at your place or theirs? Or must it be "neutral ground." I like to go against the status quo every now and then, just to mix things up, but is that really so wrong? I know why most dates are on "neutral ground," I just wondered if you could successfully challenge this standard. I have been known to ask a interesting gentleman over for a home cooked meal, movie and drinks.........what is wrong with being unique? Although, I am really leery of a man asking me to his home, mostly because I know where my weapons are hidden in my home.....so, it really depends on how much I know of this man and how much trust I have in him...... Things that make you go hhhhmmmmmmmm |
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see pats we'd all go to your house and you prolly got all patriot stuff in your basement..a man cave, right?? Not yet , but that is in the works Can't wait to see that Patriot shrine when you're done. Better start buying some NFL.com merchandise. Definitely gotta have a Tom Brady poster down there. |
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I would never meet a new friend at either my home or his for the first 4 or 5 dates. My safety is paramount and I have no idea who this person is (even under the best circumstances or period of time).
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see pats we'd all go to your house and you prolly got all patriot stuff in your basement..a man cave, right?? Not yet , but that is in the works All 4 walls in my study/writing room are a Boston Bruins & NHL freakin shrine. Nice
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My first date with my ex was at my place I cooked him dinner We relaxed and watched television It was very comfortable and nice We both enjoyed it! Cool! So it can be done, even if it goes against the status quo. I've done it three times myself, and it always worked out. People can sometimes be more comfortable in a home setting, than say a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop. Just make sure there's something fun to do while you're at their place or they're at yours. Of course it can be done!! If your both comfortable with one another it's great If a man invited me into his home. Cooked me dinner and watched a movie with me I would be one girl who would love it!!
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see pats we'd all go to your house and you prolly got all patriot stuff in your basement..a man cave, right?? Not yet , but that is in the works Can't wait to see that Patriot shrine when you're done. Better start buying some NFL.com merchandise. Definitely gotta have a Tom Brady poster down there. As soon as I'm working again, I will start the frame work & walls etc. But it will be awesome.
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My first date with my ex was at my place I cooked him dinner We relaxed and watched television It was very comfortable and nice We both enjoyed it! Cool! So it can be done, even if it goes against the status quo. I've done it three times myself, and it always worked out. People can sometimes be more comfortable in a home setting, than say a restaurant, bar, or coffee shop. Just make sure there's something fun to do while you're at their place or they're at yours. Of course it can be done!! If your both comfortable with one another it's great If a man invited me into his home. Cooked me dinner and watched a movie with me I would be one girl who would love it!! Right on! Happy Friday to you! It can be done, but it's not for everyone. And that's okay. |
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Edited by
CatsLoveMe
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Fri 10/23/09 06:05 PM
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I've got candy in the basement, wanna see pats we'd all go to your house and you prolly got all patriot stuff in your basement..a man cave, right?? Not yet , but that is in the works Can't wait to see that Patriot shrine when you're done. Better start buying some NFL.com merchandise. Definitely gotta have a Tom Brady poster down there. As soon as I'm working again, I will start the frame work & walls etc. But it will be awesome. Right on, Pats! I am a huge Broncos fan as you may have guessed, but your idea intrigues me. When it's done, post a few pics.  
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Would you really trust a stranger that much to bring in your place? You really do not know that person and that is why in the beginning to meet on neutral grounds.
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Would you really trust a stranger that much to bring in your place? You really do not know that person and that is why in the beginning to meet on neutral grounds. |
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Look at what happened to me the last time I meet a woman at her home for a first date.It took a month of healing & 6 months. of counseling to recover.
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