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Topic: my fault
SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:00 PM
rant my fault?!?! my fault?!?!?

JackButt... er see http://mingle2.com/topic/show/157999?page=1


He texts me... that is my fault and I CANT NOT BE MAD AT HIM.... HOW IS IT MINE? BECAUSE i DIDNT ASK HIM IF HE WAS MARIED?????

HELLLLLLLLLLLLO WHO IS IN THE WRONG... rant tears rant

Tankk's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:04 PM
I blame it all on his wife...:tongue:

alisha07's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:05 PM
babe... dont let him bother you. YOU ARE AMAZING!!! he is a *****you know all those words i could insertbigsmile*****
we love you and someone wayyyyyyy better will come alongbigsmile

Anyliz's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:09 PM

I blame it all on his wife...:tongue:

laugh

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:11 PM

babe... dont let him bother you. YOU ARE AMAZING!!! he is a *****you know all those words i could insertbigsmile*****
we love you and someone wayyyyyyy better will come alongbigsmile


awww... thank you hun... i appreciate it...
and i def can insert all the correct words in there for sure!!
just pissy how this was one hell of a good friend too, so i thought.. blah







i somehow blame is wife too.. is that weird.. ha ha ha

markc48's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:11 PM
It is all your fault If you would have told him to buzz off in the first place none of this would have happened. He couldn't help it you smiled at him and his ---- started to rise and it was love at first site.laugh laugh laugh laugh

TERRYBULL's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:11 PM
WHAT AN A$$!!!!frustrated

laughsandgiggles's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:17 PM
Ok so he is a scum sucking pig!!! here's what you do- go rent "Fatal Attraction" pay close attention to what Alex does to the married man- it is beautiful!!!

no really just kidding- don't do that!!!

How is any of this your fault? He did not tell you and its your fault? Yeah- so back in biblical times didn't they stone people who had affairs? Good idea? I'll help!!!!!

keep your chin up girl!! you did nothing wrong and he is a complete loser not worth wasting any emotion over

Jill298's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:18 PM
he's just to much of a coward to take the blame himself. It's easier for him to blame you. If he wanted you to know, he would have told you. If he even suspected you didn't know... he had the obligation to tell you. The married person is the one that took vows to be faithful to another. The single person has not.

no photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:21 PM
fault???

What is your fault?

that the friendship has changed??

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:27 PM

It is all your fault If you would have told him to buzz off in the first place none of this would have happened. He couldn't help it you smiled at him and his ---- started to rise and it was love at first site.laugh laugh laugh laugh


We we buds before anything grew more... plus I wanted him around.. I didn't know he was married... was in that moronic all giddy and butterfly mode when with him:cry: blushing ohwell

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:30 PM

fault???

What is your fault?

that the friendship has changed??


It is my fault that I found this way that he was married.. that I had to meet his wife like this.. that now his wife is furious with him.. and wants to kill me.. my fault his little wanker wouldn't keep to just his wife I guess... all of it... all of it is my fault.... go figure

markc48's photo
Wed 08/20/08 01:57 PM


fault???

What is your fault?

that the friendship has changed??


It is my fault that I found this way that he was married.. that I had to meet his wife like this.. that now his wife is furious with him.. and wants to kill me.. my fault his little wanker wouldn't keep to just his wife I guess... all of it... all of it is my fault.... go figure
I hope You no I was just kidding.
He knew he was married. It's all on him.:smile: It's not your fault.

shortiemix's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:00 PM
Girl, look stop beating yourself up, okay? Its easy to assume that someone isn't married especially if they are hitting on you or not wearing a ring. Its not wrong for you to like the attention, but it is wrong if you become his doormat. This man is obviously not happy in his marriage and he needs to get out of it or make it better. None of this is your fault. Hold your head high there are tons of fish in the sea.

SimplyElla's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:06 PM

Girl, look stop beating yourself up, okay? Its easy to assume that someone isn't married especially if they are hitting on you or not wearing a ring. Its not wrong for you to like the attention, but it is wrong if you become his doormat. This man is obviously not happy in his marriage and he needs to get out of it or make it better. None of this is your fault. Hold your head high there are tons of fish in the sea.


I know thank you.. it is more the fact we were friends to start with a he never even mentioned it then even when I did ask him if he was seeing any one he said no... that is all.. so me believing him as a friend made me trust him as we grew closer... I am not beating myself up not more.. I was dumb to believe his lies and the looks from his eyes.. that is all

No1sLove's photo
Wed 08/20/08 02:08 PM

rant my fault?!?! my fault?!?!?

JackButt... er see http://mingle2.com/topic/show/157999?page=1


He texts me... that is my fault and I CANT NOT BE MAD AT HIM.... HOW IS IT MINE? BECAUSE i DIDNT ASK HIM IF HE WAS MARIED?????

HELLLLLLLLLLLLO WHO IS IN THE WRONG... rant tears rant
They don't necessarily tell you when you DO ask.

I've been there before and usually start out with a two step plan to ensure they are not before I start anything.

1. Are you married?
2. Prove it. ohwell


no photo
Thu 10/22/09 09:52 PM
hi good night shwan

no photo
Thu 10/22/09 11:15 PM
Are you sure you actually saw his wife?
Who are you going to believe, him or your lying eyes?
(JUST KIDDING please ladies just a joke)
It's a shame married guys have better luck meeting women than all the single guys here on mingle.

Jtevans's photo
Thu 10/22/09 11:19 PM
i blame it on the economy....

catseyes1's photo
Fri 10/23/09 05:28 AM

rant my fault?!?! my fault?!?!?

JackButt... er see http://mingle2.com/topic/show/157999?page=1


He texts me... that is my fault and I CANT NOT BE MAD AT HIM.... HOW IS IT MINE? BECAUSE i DIDNT ASK HIM IF HE WAS MARIED?????

HELLLLLLLLLLLLO WHO IS IN THE WRONG... rant tears rant



Why would you be in the wrong? He is the one that is MARRIED and he has deceived his wife and you, you have every right to be mad because he has lied to you, but I would not worry about it, by your pic I can tell you are a beautiful person and you can do alot better.

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