Topic: What does DeathsTreaty Look Like?
DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 05:52 PM
Thank you for understanding ^^


and thank you MuayThai ^^

I like the name by the way

earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 10/19/09 05:55 PM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Mon 10/19/09 05:56 PM

Honestly... you seem to be fishing for compliments. The people who are the most depressed are the ones who don't wear their heart on their sleeve. They are the people who wear a mask of false happiness. I know those people. They're usually somewhere harming themselves... physically or otherwise. I worry for them, because it's usually the ones who say nothing that are the most content to have no one know their pain.


Yeah, I dont buy it either.. sorry.


Sounds like an attention thing.

luv2roknroll's photo
Mon 10/19/09 05:59 PM
Edited by luv2roknroll on Mon 10/19/09 06:01 PM


Honestly... you seem to be fishing for compliments. The people who are the most depressed are the ones who don't wear their heart on their sleeve. They are the people who wear a mask of false happiness. I know those people. They're usually somewhere harming themselves... physically or otherwise. I worry for them, because it's usually the ones who say nothing that are the most content to have no one know their pain.


Yeah, I dont buy it either.. sorry.


Sounds like an attention thing.
Your not buying because hes not selling anything here.

I think your whole approach to him is wayyyyyyyy off base, harsh, rude, and judgemental.

Can you walk on water...if not Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

MuayThai's photo
Mon 10/19/09 05:59 PM

I dont realy smile, laugh enjoy much....I try to...mostly fail...

but I think a try is ok for now



I dont cut myself, or others
I may be deperessed, but I dont belive that it has made me Weak
Not completly at least



My friend... you are NOT weak, but... it's my belief that comfort/solace/safety are all poison to the soul. Don't let everyone make you think that trying is good enough. Don't let them comfort you. Success is all that matters. There are only two kinds of people. Success/failures... don't be the latter.

Oftentimes, people find an emotional crutch... like these people who can reassure them that things will get better, but they're about as reliable as their Gods and fairy tales. Strength of neither kind, emotional/physical never won the day on it's own... only through learning perseverance and reflecting on one's experiences ALONE can help you push through this. Don't look to these people... they won't save you. When your storm arrives, they won't be seen anywhere near you. I give you this advice and I live by it. You can only harden yourself, none can do that for you. Don't be so dependent. Good luck... this is the last post I'll leave in this topic.

No one wins wars over the internet...

DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:00 PM
An attention thing?


Its only attention if its given ^^


No need for veiws or replies
Most of my threads die out y the 3rd-4th post


but..

Do and think as you must


There was someone who I think though much like that of me when I first came here, Lilith
But we had a long long conversation
I explained my purpose of being here

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:01 PM
Edited by FearandLoathing on Mon 10/19/09 06:01 PM
I'm glad I studied psychology...and oddly, glad that I studied some of the deepest, darkest minds that this world has to offer. However, with all that I've studied and know, I cease to understand why people butt in a conversation when they obviously don't agree with it. Talk about fishing...

DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:03 PM
Again, thank you Muay

Interesting way of thinking

No wars...not by far...

you look down on me...I like that



DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:04 PM
Fishing?

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:06 PM

Fishing?


I made this point in another thread, publicity is still publicity. I've found that for some reason when people don't agree with something, they make it known verbally rather than shrug it off. I've done it, at least I'm sure I have, however I hit in with humor. Fishing for compliments wouldn't do any good if these people were to not reply to it in the first place, which typically nullifies the point of 'fishing for compliments'. Isn't psychology fun?

Cheers Death.drinker

no photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:07 PM

An attention thing?


Its only attention if its given ^^


No need for veiws or replies
Most of my threads die out y the 3rd-4th post


but..

Do and think as you must


There was someone who I think though much like that of me when I first came here, Lilith
But we had a long long conversation
I explained my purpose of being here


DT -- I will tell you something I've learned from years and years of dealing with people, both on line and in real life.

There are those who simply can't deal with someone who does not live within the conventional parameters, who does not say what he's "supposed to" say, who does not parrot the same old homilies in the same old homily-inducing scenarios. They become offended; this infidel does not match up with their preconceived "categories" of humanity and is therefore messing up the whole glorious pigeonholing process.

Don't concern yourself with those people.

Fear, I studied psychology for seven years, and there are those who have problems addressing things outside their "comfort zones"....!

I'm not saying this makes them right or wrong -- it does, however, limit their perspectives on what "right" and "wrong" might actually encompass in terms of a complete stranger's life....



DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:08 PM
Oh, yes

Thats what i was saying a bit ago ^^


Its like a Lirary...you dont read or pick up every book you look at...I dont think anyone does that..

Cheers Fear
Still chocolate Milk ^^

DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:11 PM
Ive kind of dealt with this a lot ^^"


90% of what I do/say, there are amny who disagree and complain, I sit and listen, then "Correct their hearing"

but I dont do that anymore...


as I said...People have disappointed me...greatly


Robbidude's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:12 PM
Edited by Robbidude on Mon 10/19/09 06:13 PM



Honestly... you seem to be fishing for compliments. The people who are the most depressed are the ones who don't wear their heart on their sleeve. They are the people who wear a mask of false happiness. I know those people. They're usually somewhere harming themselves... physically or otherwise. I worry for them, because it's usually the ones who say nothing that are the most content to have no one know their pain.


Yeah, I dont buy it either.. sorry.


Sounds like an attention thing.
Your not buying because hes not selling anything here.

I think your whole approach to him is wayyyyyyyy off base, harsh, rude, and judgemental.

Can you walk on water...if not Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
Furthermore...

In the future please try to voice yourselves in a slightly more tactful manner.

Its one thing to voice an opinion..

but to attack him was uncalled for.

oops This is luv2roknroll, I didnt realize Robbi was logged in.

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:14 PM

Ive kind of dealt with this a lot ^^"


90% of what I do/say, there are amny who disagree and complain, I sit and listen, then "Correct their hearing"

but I dont do that anymore...


as I said...People have disappointed me...greatly




Do what I did and look into something less disappointing, insects! Fascinating creatures they are, entire point in their life is to survive and breed, same goes for animals. Take up a hobby of studying your favorite creature, beit an animal or insect...or aliens, if you are into that kind of thing.laugh

luv2roknroll's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:16 PM
As I also stated earlier...

I like you.

Forget the haters.

DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:16 PM
To be honest...I always thought people were interesting

They are an Animal too


Their Failure can be seen over and over again

DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:17 PM
Thank you Luv2RokNRoll ^^



no photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:17 PM

Ive kind of dealt with this a lot ^^"


90% of what I do/say, there are amny who disagree and complain, I sit and listen, then "Correct their hearing"

but I dont do that anymore...


as I said...People have disappointed me...greatly


I understand, and I know the feeling all too well. All of my "friends" abandoned me when I was in the car accident last February. True colors, and all that.

I also have one of those profiles that people like to read and then contact me just so they can argue about it!

Bottom line is, you can't please everybody, and there's no reason to try.

People are always telling me that "There will be someone who accepts you for who you are." I have yet to see this, have no reason to believe them, but I figure I have to remain open to the possibility.

DeathsTreaty's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:19 PM
I agree


I simply give what I can


Speaking of the Count thread...I want to start another one up soon

FearandLoathing's photo
Mon 10/19/09 06:22 PM

To be honest...I always thought people were interesting

They are an Animal too


Their Failure can be seen over and over again


Oh! Study serial killers! Arguably the best specimens to study, perfect specimens really...but that is debatable, and I'm sure many will disagree with me. But they are the only people I've found that actually succeed in what they set out to do...