Topic: How Can You Tell?
BYondLife's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:43 PM





:heart:How can you tell if someone who says they love you is being honest?:heart:


The only time you truly know if someone loves you is when..

..you no longer need to question whether its true or not.

You already know...


Pfft, I've thought I knew things, and I was sooooo wrong...laugh


You're such negativity..
..on my positive vibe, man.
rofl biggrin

It sounded good, anyway...
grumble

no photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:44 PM
People can say all kinds of things but if its love you will know by the way the person treats you. I you cant what to get home from work to see that person there is a good chance you might be in love with them.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:44 PM





By their actions, I've learned not to trust what people tell me, talk is cheap, and actions speak louder than words. (Too many cliches, I knowlaugh)

Yup..I agree with Call..I had a guy start tellin me that he loved me after less than a month but when it came time to "show" that love he wouldn't..not couldn't..would't do it..soooooo I sent him packin.
flowers

I'm not bitter anymore..I swear I'm not..lol.


That's not being bitter, that's being wise. I just realized a guy has been lying to me about how he feels about me the entire time, and I'm not bitter, I'm just pissed at myself for falling for it.laugh

Yup..I'm at that stage now..mad at myself..I don't know what it is about me that sends off the "please lie to me and abuse my feelings" signal to guys but it happens waaaaaaaay to much..thats why I've stopped looking and just come here for the forums now.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:44 PM




By their actions, I've learned not to trust what people tell me, talk is cheap, and actions speak louder than words. (Too many cliches, I knowlaugh)

Yup..I agree with Call..I had a guy start tellin me that he loved me after less than a month but when it came time to "show" that love he wouldn't..not couldn't..would't do it..soooooo I sent him packin.
flowers

I'm not bitter anymore..I swear I'm not..lol.
laugh

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Sun 10/18/09 05:45 PM






:heart:How can you tell if someone who says they love you is being honest?:heart:


The only time you truly know if someone loves you is when..

..you no longer need to question whether its true or not.

You already know...


Pfft, I've thought I knew things, and I was sooooo wrong...laugh


You're such negativity..
..on my positive vibe, man.
rofl biggrin

It sounded good, anyway...
grumble


Sorry, wasn't trying to be. I was just speaking for my own experiences. I'm sure you have had much better luck in this arena than I have, but every time I think I can trust a man he turns into a total a$$. But yeah, sorry to piss on your comment. I'm in a horrid mood and I really shouldn't be on the forums.mad

BYondLife's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:47 PM


Sorry, wasn't trying to be. I was just speaking for my own experiences. I'm sure you have had much better luck in this arena than I have, but every time I think I can trust a man he turns into a total a$$. But yeah, sorry to piss on your comment. I'm in a horrid mood and I really shouldn't be on the forums.mad


Oh, I didn't mean it.
I was just teasing ya.
:wink:

Hey if ya wanna vent..
You can e-holla at me.
rofl
smile2

no photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:48 PM

People can say all kinds of things but if its love you will know by the way the person treats you. I you cant what to get home from work to see that person there is a good chance you might be in love with them.


one day i hope to find that again....*sighs*

Gossipmpm's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:49 PM
Ya never really truly never know.....

But

I'm pretty sure he's honest when he says it after we make love

And he's smiling....

And he starts to snorebigsmile .....yeah I'm pretty sure:heart:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:49 PM



Have you ever heard the term "leap of faith".
You never really know for sure until you take that jump.


how many leaps can you take before your "leap" visa expires??
lol


There is another term "Look BEFORE you leap".
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:51 PM





By their actions, I've learned not to trust what people tell me, talk is cheap, and actions speak louder than words. (Too many cliches, I knowlaugh)

Yup..I agree with Call..I had a guy start tellin me that he loved me after less than a month but when it came time to "show" that love he wouldn't..not couldn't..would't do it..soooooo I sent him packin.
flowers

I'm not bitter anymore..I swear I'm not..lol.


That's not being bitter, that's being wise. I just realized a guy has been lying to me about how he feels about me the entire time, and I'm not bitter, I'm just pissed at myself for falling for it.laugh
:laughing:

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:54 PM
I grew up on the saying "You know somebody's lying if their mouth is moving"..It aint been wrong yet..lol.

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:55 PM




Have you ever heard the term "leap of faith".
You never really know for sure until you take that jump.


how many leaps can you take before your "leap" visa expires??
lol


There is another term "Look BEFORE you leap".


well /now/ you tell me...besides you said leap of /faith/...
no looking if you have faith...??
:wink:
flowers

no photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:59 PM


Have you ever heard the term "leap of faith".
You never really know for sure until you take that jump.
how many leaps can you take before your "leap" visa expires??
lol
There is another term "Look BEFORE you leap".


well /now/ you tell me...besides you said leap of /faith/...
no looking if you have faith...??
:wink:
flowers


lol thanks sweetie....it's kind of a contradictory statement isn't it?
hee hee :wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/18/09 05:59 PM




:heart:How can you tell if someone who says they love you is being honest?:heart:


The only time you truly know if someone loves you is when..

..you no longer need to question whether its true or not.

You already know...
:thumbsup:

no photo
Sun 10/18/09 06:00 PM



Sorry, wasn't trying to be. I was just speaking for my own experiences. I'm sure you have had much better luck in this arena than I have, but every time I think I can trust a man he turns into a total a$$. But yeah, sorry to piss on your comment. I'm in a horrid mood and I really shouldn't be on the forums.mad


Oh, I didn't mean it.
I was just teasing ya.
:wink:

Hey if ya wanna vent..
You can e-holla at me.
rofl
smile2


No worries, I'm just really pissed at myself right now, more embarrassed than anything else, and I really hate to be embarrassed, it's like a sign of weakness for me. But yeah, I might email you later, I'm off to watch tv right now. Maybe family dramas will kill some of my inner ragelaugh drinker

JasmineInglewood's photo
Sun 10/18/09 06:07 PM
Edited by JasmineInglewood on Sun 10/18/09 06:10 PM
If it's obviously difficult for him to say it. Or if he waited a long time to say it.

If he says it 2 weeks after my meeting him, or without a hint of difficulty... It doesn't quite ring true for me, and is probably something he says often and indiscriminately

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/18/09 06:16 PM

People can say all kinds of things but if its love you will know by the way the person treats you. I you cant what to get home from work to see that person there is a good chance you might be in love with them.
:thumbsup:

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 10/18/09 06:19 PM






By their actions, I've learned not to trust what people tell me, talk is cheap, and actions speak louder than words. (Too many cliches, I knowlaugh)

Yup..I agree with Call..I had a guy start tellin me that he loved me after less than a month but when it came time to "show" that love he wouldn't..not couldn't..would't do it..soooooo I sent him packin.
flowers

I'm not bitter anymore..I swear I'm not..lol.


That's not being bitter, that's being wise. I just realized a guy has been lying to me about how he feels about me the entire time, and I'm not bitter, I'm just pissed at myself for falling for it.laugh

Yup..I'm at that stage now..mad at myself..I don't know what it is about me that sends off the "please lie to me and abuse my feelings" signal to guys but it happens waaaaaaaay to much..thats why I've stopped looking and just come here for the forums now.
flowerforyou

catseyes1's photo
Sun 10/18/09 06:26 PM
If it comes from the heart then you'll know.

BYondLife's photo
Sun 10/18/09 06:32 PM

If it comes from the heart then you'll know.


Ah..
..but hearts love to lie.