A llama told me which door didn't lock right.

Ok, then how about this..

Are men in their 30s are unappealing to women in their late 20s and early 30s?

Nope. Some are 48 with no kids!

On the other hand, all of the men are 21 with 5 kids from 8 different women!!

I was surprised at the amount of young parents.

I always have a demographic issue because a lot of men have kids and that is a deal breaker for me regardless of age.

29-39(ish) and no kids have a BIG gap of participation on Mingle.

Atlantis, to answer your question, in this huge world, the chances of finding the right person for you on this ONE dating site is minimal. I think the missing participants are due to chance more than anything.

I wish I could find you a good one because you are a good one! Remember, if you ever cure yourself of wanting to breed -- you know where to find me!

Those llamas cannot keep a secret!

That's why there are so few of them in international espionage.

Kids

I've noticed this as well.

KIDS

They will rob my youth & I'm not going to let that happen

But what if i have already stopped looking here, and I am just curious about the reasons why it is the way it is?

Well, not ALL! I got NO kids from NO different women. Maybe part of the problem is that all of the women I've been with are NO different....?



Same here. It's amazing the number of profiles I've read that start out "I'm 19, single mother of three kids, and THEY ARE MY WORLD." And then they proceed to tell you all the dreadful things that should happen to you if you don't like it.



Same here again.



I don't think I've seen any dating sites where anybody over 25 DIDN'T have kids. It's practically mandatory.

There is nothing wrong with being curious! I just added my THREE cents as to why there is a gap in a certain age group.

You are intelligent and I know you like to muse social issues. Keep it up because I enjoy your posts.

Your avatar picture scares the bejesus out of me though.

What I find really sad is when someone says, "If it weren't for my kids I'd be .... (homeless, drug addicted, in jail, etc).

Why can't they be strong alone? Why do the worst candidates for kids have kids? Shouldn't strong, independent, self-sustaining people have kids -- and leave the others to "fix" themselves first?

Don't get me started on the "they are my WHOLE world" dealio.

I haven't read the veiled threats as to what happens in the case of not accepting their litter. Sounds scary!

Sorry -- rant over.

It's Halloween!!! This pic is just from one of my costumes last year. *psst* It's just make-believe!

I'm in my 60's and I always have younger men hitting on me.My last boyfriend was 12's younger then me. Now don't go calling me a cougar.

Thats a gnarly new pic, Melody!

I love doing theatrical make-up and Halloween is MY TIME OF YEAR! It works out well for me!

Hi BTW!

I think there is a difference between having kids out of irresponsibility vs. having kids for family planning.

But that's not the only 2 groups though. There are the divorced ones and there the ones who wanted a kid, even if she couldn't keep the husband or boyfriend around.

At the end of the day, the least of all women anywhere( not just mingle), who made it to the 30s without any kids, regardless of the reason why not.

I suspect the largest group of those (who got no child and over 30) would be the ones who were either occupied with their carrier or never had such a relationship, which would gone as far as having kids as a result.

It just so happens this babe is single with no kids & guys flock to her!