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Topic: i need opinions and advice
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Wed 10/14/09 11:37 AM
i recently went out on a date with a girl i really like, this was about a week ago, we kissed at the end of the date, so i assumed it went well. we have been texting for the last week and made plans for this past weekend, but she said something came up at work and then rescheduled for sunday. sunday came around and she canceled again saying family came on a surprise vist, i was fine with it. we continued texting but when i try to call her she never answers my phone calls. what should i do should i continue texting her or should i just forget about it?

Englishrose2's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:41 AM
Has she txt you back since you tried to call her? if not move on hun her loss. Anna xflowerforyou

jramos2184's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:41 AM
actually she has, she just anwsers my texts.

lilith401's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:42 AM
She's dissing you.

The guy I'm dating stopped by the YMCA where my son had swim class just to give me a kiss. I saw him for less than 90 seconds. He said I was worth it... I would do the same for him...

My point is that you would do what you could do to see one another. She sounds flaky and rude. She's just not that into you. Her response is sophomoric. I'm sorry... but best move on.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:43 AM

i recently went out on a date with a girl i really like, this was about a week ago, we kissed at the end of the date, so i assumed it went well. we have been texting for the last week and made plans for this past weekend, but she said something came up at work and then rescheduled for sunday. sunday came around and she canceled again saying family came on a surprise vist, i was fine with it. we continued texting but when i try to call her she never answers my phone calls. what should i do should i continue texting her or should i just forget about it?
:smile: Maybe you should cut back on contacting her and wait to see if she contacts you:smile:

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Wed 10/14/09 11:44 AM
i would give it a rest for a while. if she like you as you like her...let her come to you. otherwise, let her go and find someone whom is worthy of your time...

markc48's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:44 AM
How bad do you want it? Could be true. I would keep trying for a little while.

Englishrose2's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:46 AM

i would give it a rest for a while. if she like you as you like her...let her come to you. otherwise, let her go and find someone whom is worthy of your time...


Well said great advise see some guys know what they are talking about not many but somelaugh laugh only joking guysflowerforyou Anna x

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:47 AM
Sounds like she is trying to blow you off, forget her & move on!

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Wed 10/14/09 11:51 AM


i would give it a rest for a while. if she like you as you like her...let her come to you. otherwise, let her go and find someone whom is worthy of your time...


Well said great advise see some guys know what they are talking about not many but somelaugh laugh only joking guysflowerforyou Anna x



thank you, Anna X

Itguy70's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:51 AM
Either she is into you or she isnt...blow her off and see what she does..if not just say NEXT theres plenty of fish in the sea!

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Wed 10/14/09 11:53 AM

i recently went out on a date with a girl i really like, this was about a week ago, we kissed at the end of the date, so i assumed it went well. we have been texting for the last week and made plans for this past weekend, but she said something came up at work and then rescheduled for sunday. sunday came around and she canceled again saying family came on a surprise vist, i was fine with it. we continued texting but when i try to call her she never answers my phone calls. what should i do should i continue texting her or should i just forget about it?
3 STRIKES SHES OUT..............

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 10/14/09 11:57 AM


i recently went out on a date with a girl i really like, this was about a week ago, we kissed at the end of the date, so i assumed it went well. we have been texting for the last week and made plans for this past weekend, but she said something came up at work and then rescheduled for sunday. sunday came around and she canceled again saying family came on a surprise vist, i was fine with it. we continued texting but when i try to call her she never answers my phone calls. what should i do should i continue texting her or should i just forget about it?
3 STRIKES SHES OUT..............
drinker YES,ITS TIME TO GET BACK ON THE TRACTOR AND RIDEdrinker

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Wed 10/14/09 11:57 AM

i recently went out on a date with a girl i really like, this was about a week ago, we kissed at the end of the date, so i assumed it went well. we have been texting for the last week and made plans for this past weekend, but she said something came up at work and then rescheduled for sunday. sunday came around and she canceled again saying family came on a surprise vist, i was fine with it. we continued texting but when i try to call her she never answers my phone calls. what should i do should i continue texting her or should i just forget about it?


seems you are suffering from the 'too nice...too available...too eager' syndrome....send her to coventry for a few days (ie no contact)....she'll be beating down your door in no time....women can be just as shallow as men...people like her are often afraid of commitment....even committing for a coffee...the fun is in the game....the chase....once it gets close to getting the prize they get bored and lose interest....so be prepared to keep playing hard to get if you want this one...

my advice though as a female who hates the game playing thing - drop her like a hot potato.,..there are lots of other nice women out there who dont do that crapshades

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Wed 10/14/09 11:58 AM
I'm just wondering if she was shy. She might be more comfortable texting than talking on the phone. Text back if you want but let her make the next move.

mo_muirnin's photo
Wed 10/14/09 12:01 PM
Yep, she definitely isn't into you that much, leading you on or might even use you. If she liked you she'd be more than willing to accept your phone call. Might be best to just come out and ask her in a text...

"How come you can't answer my calls, yet you will answer my texts?"

see what she says...

If she gives you an excuse, drop it and move on.

It's not your duty to wait around for someone that has absolutely zero interest in you.


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Wed 10/14/09 12:04 PM



i recently went out on a date with a girl i really like, this was about a week ago, we kissed at the end of the date, so i assumed it went well. we have been texting for the last week and made plans for this past weekend, but she said something came up at work and then rescheduled for sunday. sunday came around and she canceled again saying family came on a surprise vist, i was fine with it. we continued texting but when i try to call her she never answers my phone calls. what should i do should i continue texting her or should i just forget about it?
3 STRIKES SHES OUT..............
drinker YES,ITS TIME TO GET BACK ON THE TRACTOR AND RIDEdrinker
YES GET A TRACTOR AND GIVE HER A TRACTOR RIDE........

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Wed 10/14/09 12:06 PM
Interesting topic. I have a fairly strong tendency to believe that texting is an almost immoral method of communication at the very best of times. It requires almost no emotional action and certainly no moral value. There is no personal interaction beyond abbreviated words. Rather like trying to squeeze an elephant into a peanut butter jar. Generally quite a difficult task. I'm not sure that elephants even like being squeezed into peanut butter jars. We do live in abbreviated times so abbreviated communication is possibly a fair excuse for the loss of human and dignified communication. However impersonal that makes us all. Is it worth emotionally trying to assess someone's truth through a text? What a mouthful that was.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 10/14/09 12:07 PM
Am I the only one that talks on the phone anymorelaugh

lilith401's photo
Wed 10/14/09 12:12 PM

Interesting topic. I have a fairly strong tendency to believe that texting is an almost immoral method of communication at the very best of times. It requires almost no emotional action and certainly no moral value. There is no personal interaction beyond abbreviated words. Rather like trying to squeeze an elephant into a peanut butter jar. Generally quite a difficult task. I'm not sure that elephants even like being squeezed into peanut butter jars. We do live in abbreviated times so abbreviated communication is possibly a fair excuse for the loss of human and dignified communication. However impersonal that makes us all. Is it worth emotionally trying to assess someone's truth through a text? What a mouthful that was.


Right on!!!!

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