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Topic: need help
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Mon 10/12/09 07:38 PM

A good provider is one that provides all needs for a healthy relation,not just one or two phases...being emotionally confident and trustful is far more important than financial imho.Its up to you tho,if u want to have a sugar daddy instead of a man that is honest with feelings and virtue....because last time i heard you can declare bankruptcy of cash and be fine after a while ,but not of emotion,because that takes longer and you lack "investment" opportunities


true that, providers provide

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Tue 10/13/09 05:28 AM


A good provider is one that provides all needs for a healthy relation,not just one or two phases...being emotionally confident and trustful is far more important than financial imho.Its up to you tho,if u want to have a sugar daddy instead of a man that is honest with feelings and virtue....because last time i heard you can declare bankruptcy of cash and be fine after a while ,but not of emotion,because that takes longer and you lack "investment" opportunities


true that, providers provide

Well sure, if he's out cheating then he's providing diseases on top of the money. noway noway

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Tue 10/13/09 05:29 AM
Edited by Winx on Tue 10/13/09 05:30 AM

if a guy is a good provider do u overlook everything else like cheating, no quality time.


Never.

That's not a healthy relationship.



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Tue 10/13/09 05:30 AM
I couldn't help but slam my head on my desk when I read this...and people wonder why I think they are for the most part useless...

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Tue 10/13/09 05:46 AM
If no love there leave and run.


Not a lot of information to judge but on what you wrote, so I get that he cheats and ignores you but provides for all your financial needs and you wonder if you should stay because he has money.

To me you both should be alone your both not worthy of a relation, him for cheating and ignoring you and whatever else he does and you for staying only because he pays the bills and seems not really loving him except for his bank account. Grow up and leave.

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Tue 10/13/09 05:51 AM
Money isn't the all, end all...
If he treats you like crap, dump him....

No self respecting person would let someone treat them that way!

Very unhealthy relationship, indeed!


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Tue 10/13/09 05:53 AM
NO1 NEVER SETTLE














no! never settle!flowerforyou

















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