Topic: Does A Broken Heart Ever Heal?
Gazzatron's photo
Mon 10/12/09 06:53 AM


Good question
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I find it depends on who I was with at the time, how long i'd been with them, but how attached I was to them as well..

I can honestly say, a broken heart is like a burn scar. It takes while to heal, but there's always something there for the person who caused the heartbreak. And that I believe is when the 'scar' is tolerable, you've accepted that everything has finished and you're ready to start again. However long this takes is down to the individual.



{Just as a slight side note - has anyone thought it a little odd that the mirror is asking questions??? lol - snow white has to find the answer in return for prince charming?? laugh}

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 10/12/09 06:55 AM
yes, healing happens, if you allow it....
or one can just stay bitter and jaded and pissed of the rest of their life.

whatssuup's photo
Mon 10/12/09 06:57 AM


The heart will heal... It just won't forget


Tocheeky4U's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:05 AM
I hope it heals I cant stand this hurting

greeneyedlady42's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:07 AM
Healing goes through "stages" at least it did for me...
1st stage was shock and dismay..
then came hurt, followed by anger and resentment until finally
I was left with the "indifference" stage....That is for self preservation I guess.


kc0003's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:08 AM
yes and yes...

"seasons slip
quietly passed
the lonely arms
of a lover
in wait.

night to day
day to night
the healing
hands of time
see no cause
for hurry."


the amount of time is different for everyone
but, in the end your answer is still yes...






Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:23 AM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Mon 10/12/09 07:30 AM
It heals!!

Faster for some then others

Time
Patience
And good ole freinds do it every time!!





I get by with a little help from my freinds.......

TheCaptain's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:23 AM
For me, I put my right foot in front of me, and folowed it with my left. Then I repeated the process. I had no idea where I was going,I just didn't want to stop. I kept my faith. After that, Eileen found me, and I knew it was time to love again.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:28 AM

brokenheart Does a broken heart ever really "heal"?brokenheartOr does the pain just gradually lessen to a level you can tolerate?:heart:

Nope..it doesn't heal..at least mine didn't..my hurt just usually gives up and transforms into anger..mostly at myself for not gaurding myself from being hurt to begin with.

Gazzatron's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:32 AM

It heals!!

Faster for some then others

Time
Patience
And good ole freinds do it every time!!





I get by with a little help from my freinds.......


What would you do if I sang out of tune, would you stand up and walk out on me? Lend me your ears and i'll sing you a song, and i'll try not to sing out of key :P

bikerbabe63's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:36 AM
Edited by bikerbabe63 on Mon 10/12/09 07:38 AM

a broken heart does heal, it just takes time, tissue, great friends, sometimes booze, a fire pit to burn all their stupid lil gifts that you once thought were cute, chocolate, and a vacation to vegas....
yea you got that right but fon't forget to delete all there pictures from your puter cause when you look at them you think "what was I thinking" after you burn their gifts and cards delete their pix than you know your heart is healed. And theen you can move on and meet the right person the person that will treat you like you deserve to be treated.

catseyes1's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:41 AM
It takes time to mend a broken heart it's a slow process but it will heal in time.

KoolAidWoman's photo
Mon 10/12/09 07:59 AM
Edited by KoolAidWoman on Mon 10/12/09 08:02 AM
flowerforyou Hay babe we try'' not to dwell on it with time and keeping busy @ work and or hobbies what-ever get's ya through it and big ups to you long time honey a big ol {Apple} a day huh!just what I ordered!LOL! hang in there kool!drinker :heart:

adj4u's photo
Mon 10/12/09 08:05 AM
Edited by adj4u on Mon 10/12/09 08:06 AM
kinda like breaking your arm

you have to have brace it for awhile

then it is a lil hard to use for awhile

but eventfully you get almost back to normal

and maybe even full use of it

but you never really forget the experience

just a thought

but hey

what do i know

Goofball73's photo
Mon 10/12/09 08:08 AM

brokenheart Does a broken heart ever really "heal"?brokenheartOr does the pain just gradually lessen to a level you can tolerate?:heart:


It heals...with the help of a Smith and Wesson MP40.laugh

Jules0565's photo
Mon 10/12/09 08:27 AM
I believe you answered your first question with the second.

Pain lessening is a process of healing. flowers

no photo
Mon 10/12/09 09:18 AM
It will heal but how long it takes depends on the individual, if you let it hurt you, feel resentment, anger , hate, look to blame and won't let go it will take a very long time to heal.

You have to be true and look at yourself in the mirror and accept it, move on and not make one heartbreak close your heart to all the beauty in the world and it will heal faster.

MeChrissy2's photo
Mon 10/12/09 09:21 AM
God I hope so.

no photo
Mon 10/12/09 09:32 AM
Bind your heart up with barbed wire & chewing gum...I promise it works...

Jhavez's photo
Mon 10/12/09 11:18 AM

brokenheart Does a broken heart ever really "heal"?brokenheartOr does the pain just gradually lessen to a level you can tolerate?:heart:


It heals, but only if the heartbreak_ee puts themselves in a mindset to truly forget about the heartbreaker.

(if the heartbreakee is still calling, looking at pictures of, talking about, fantasizing about or trying to get back with the heartbreaker, then the healing will never happen and will just become a tolerable situation.)