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Topic: It speaks for itself.
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Mon 10/12/09 03:25 PM


I'd like to believe. But I can't anymore.




awwww lex, that is the saddest thing i've read in such a long time.

for it's the magic, and the hope, that keeps us all going and surely you must believe that you are deserving of love?


Truthfully, I figure I'm as deserving as anybody. It isn't that, it's just that I can't find anyone who "fits" at all. There just aren't any prospects out there, and it seems sort of pointless and foolish of me to pretend otherwise.


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Mon 10/12/09 03:29 PM



I'd like to believe. But I can't anymore.




awwww lex, that is the saddest thing i've read in such a long time.

for it's the magic, and the hope, that keeps us all going and surely you must believe that you are deserving of love?


Truthfully, I figure I'm as deserving as anybody. It isn't that, it's just that I can't find anyone who "fits" at all. There just aren't any prospects out there, and it seems sort of pointless and foolish of me to pretend otherwise.




i know you don't want to hear it, cause i've read enough of your posts to know your stance on 'settling', but maybe the one who 'fits' is the one who didn't fit into that stereotypical box which you've created. flowerforyou


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Mon 10/12/09 03:42 PM




I'd like to believe. But I can't anymore.




awwww lex, that is the saddest thing i've read in such a long time.

for it's the magic, and the hope, that keeps us all going and surely you must believe that you are deserving of love?


Truthfully, I figure I'm as deserving as anybody. It isn't that, it's just that I can't find anyone who "fits" at all. There just aren't any prospects out there, and it seems sort of pointless and foolish of me to pretend otherwise.




i know you don't want to hear it, cause i've read enough of your posts to know your stance on 'settling', but maybe the one who 'fits' is the one who didn't fit into that stereotypical box which you've created. flowerforyou




It's a matter of priorities -- and I'd rather resign myself to being alone than try to deal with someone outside my established criteria. My standards are there for a reason, and there are things far worse than loneliness -- such as every relationship I've ever been in....

I'll be the first to admit it would be wonderful to find someone compatible -- but history and years of seeking indicate that no such person exists. I can't waste the rest of my life looking for unicorns.



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