Thank you Gary, that helps.

Hello, I'm old and confused.

Welcome

Hello, thanks for the welcome. does this site actually work to meet people or just entertain? either or is fine, just wondering.

Actually it does both....you get out of it what you put into it so to speak....oh and by the way welcome.....

IM JUST PLAIN CONFUSED AND I WAS BORN THAT WAY.........

Dating is harder work than my job

GETTIG ME A DATE IS THE HARDEST JOB IN THE WORLD...........

Maybe you need to get your priorities straight..
Seriously just look around at the various posts, jump in the ones you like the sounds of. Share a laugh, just enjoy don't try to figure the whole place at at once...get to know people by reading what they have to say, you will do fine.

Welcome and have fun. Entertain yourself and you never know. Good luck.

welcome welcome welcome! i dont really know what im doing either..

This site like all dating sites is nothing more than a micro-chasm of society. Having expectations beyond interaction with other humans will be a disappointment & frustratingly un-productive!
Involve yourself in conversations send notes of interest to those who catch your eye and be aware that many here are either in deep denial about their singleness or deceptive in their presentations of themselves. Remain honest and open and remember this...ALL relationships that are healthy are born out of compromise and want....not NEED & beauty!