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Topic: i'm really confused by ex
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Thu 10/08/09 01:38 PM
Edited by Calleigh12 on Thu 10/08/09 01:38 PM
For some reason, I keep misreading the headline as I'm really confused by sex.pitchfork :tongue:

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Fri 10/09/09 04:08 PM
its hard to be friends with an ex,it sometimes dont work for people,i personaly dont even try to br friends with them.to me when its over its done and you wont hear from me again,i had a bad experiance trying to be friends with my ex cuz we would have sex every time we seen eachother and it made the friendship doomed.so its better to just move on.

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Sat 10/17/09 09:30 PM
it sounds like this guy is not worth your time. i mean he pretty much hinted to you that he wanted to be intimate with you but then denying it, you should have just never talked with him so he would have made a complete fool of himself.

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Sat 10/17/09 09:33 PM

broke up a month ago in that time when i have message or called him he will ignore it and then call a day or two later..last week he called and i was out with my friends i convinced him to come out and have a few drinks with us..as soon as he arrived just the way he was looking at me was exactly the same as when we were going out and i must admit i was pretty smug at the idea...so we're all getting pretty drunk and i'm all happy and having fun and dancing anyways we all went back to a friends house to continue and he's trying to follow me around the place and talk and he's trying to get some cuddles out of me and touch me and i kept saying to him hey were supposed to be friends can't have any of that really drilling into him the whole "friends" thing because after all that's what he wanted...towards the end of the night he kisses me and i'm like what are doing we're friends ok and anyways we end up going to sleep in the same bed and he's cuddling up to me and i kinda made the assumption that he was trying to sleep with me and he went off me saying that isn't why he came to see me for he wanted to see m coz it's been awhile...i wasnt really buying it so he got angry and is like you should know me better by now i'm not like that...in th emorning he wakes up and says im sorry i was drunk yeah just a bit tipsy and pats me on the head and leaves...i called him in the afternoon just to make sure he got work ok and we talked for a few minutes all he commented on was how drunk i was...anyways 2 days later i sent him a text msg asking if he wanted to come out again got no reply i then sent another one during the night saying i hate you now i miss you..that got no reply either....a week later asked him out again and no reply again......what is with the guy??
flowerforyou Sounds like the dude is not interested anymore unless he is drunkflowerforyou

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Sat 10/17/09 11:28 PM
be clear on the expectations, if its friendship you seek, set the parameters for that, if its something else, then set the parameters for that, the guy aint calling cause he doesn't know what to expect

roko

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Sat 10/17/09 11:38 PM
your his comfortable zone while he is playing cat and mouse with another.

Baabs's photo
Sat 10/17/09 11:38 PM
by the way until he gets comfortable with the other.

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