Ok, what do I do, I may have messed up a friendship... My friend was
drunk and sent me some pictures he shouldn't have and ended up talking
me into sending him some also, not only that we had a bit of a steamy
phone conversation. He has been a friend for many years and we both
agreed that it was weird... He has always tried flirting with me and i
never would, now that this happened I wish I didn't give in this time.
He is planning on visiting in the next year, I just hope it won't be
weird when he visits, it's been a while since we've seen each other. Do
we not bring it up again and act like it never happened?

YA **** HAPPENS!!!! Pretend it never happened and if it still feels
weird, then still pretend it never happened...by the way....keep ya
clothes on next time!!! heheeeeeeee

oops I sweared!!!

Luckily it was only on the phone.... that was weird enough, I can't
imagine if he had been here and something really happened how weird it
would have been. We have been friends for maybe 10 years and it was
never like that between us.

I think you should bring it up before he gets there in person. He might
be expecting something in person.

hey nurjoyce!!!!

hey gypsy!
How are you this morning?

ummmm I had wine and you?

Have to go to work in 2 hours, no wine for me.
No kids for the summer...
they went to visit their dad for the summer so I
am kind of lost.

i HEAR YA BUT hey I got off work at 11 pm....you either need
a man or a pet hmmmm?

well if he gets pictures I want some too

One mistake a week is my limit, sorry Iron... lol

( O )( O )

I would talk about it and get it out of the way...Chalk it up to a
drunken mistake and let it go!!!!!!!!

i think you have a deeper problem here.

since he "has always been flirting" he obviously is interested in a
relationship which is clearly uncomfortable for you...and i would say
that he is not giving up - completely

that is the real problem and it must be addressed and
be resolved if there is to be any hope of a real friendship

an unfulfilled and unending pursuit is no good for anyone

most of the time in my experience this is only resolved when one or both
of the parties becomes seriously attached to someone new

I think you should talk about it, if not then I think you are going to
feel strange when you see each other. If he always tries to flirt with
you then there must be feelings there. Are you sure that you don't like
him? Maybe you do or you would not have done what you did?
I always say that I would rather have a best friend then to lose him to
trying anything else. I would have told him the minute those pictures
came in....and I sure would have never sent him any pictures. Whats done
is done and you can't change that but you do need to ask yourself if you
do have feelings for him??

Pass, after ten years of friendship, maybe there is more to consider
than just the pictures. You should talk about this, but obviously you
feel quite comfortable with him to share something so intimate.

I could offer some good advice..but I should probably see the
pictures first...

Pass...

I think you should talk to him about it. If you don't, you will have no
idea what he is thinking, and to me that can't ever be a good thing.
Maybe, you can still be friends when it is all said and done...who knows

-Joanne