Topic: help i need advice
valo666's photo
Wed 05/30/07 06:21 PM
Yea i meant someone on another site and we dated a couple times and
decided to be gf/bf/. So i went to her house and her mom caught me
touching her somewhere. And her mom told me im not to contact her or see
her again to top it off her mom won't let her go out or anything unless
she approves. She is 18 but while she's under her roof she has r=to
abide. We said we would wait and i plan on it but its going to be a
year.

Trizar's photo
Wed 05/30/07 06:31 PM
better listen to her mom

EccentricOne's photo
Wed 05/30/07 06:35 PM
Honestly and as a parent myself. I would have to say if you respect your
girlfriend. You will respect her mothers wishes. It might be a long
dreadful year. However its better to have a long dreadful year than a
cranky old mother-in-law still breathing down your neck 5 years from
nownoway

valo666's photo
Wed 05/30/07 06:37 PM
i agree i do plan on waiting. just wanted some insight i guess.

EccentricOne's photo
Wed 05/30/07 06:42 PM
Insight is always good, as you recieve different ways on how to approach
a situation. However I did state it from a parents view. If I recall
back to that age I would probably of answered differently laugh

Duffy's photo
Wed 05/30/07 06:49 PM
u r 4 years older than this 18 year old girl. u need to get out and
travel with women your own age, and let this girl grow up.

she is still under curfew, and MOTHER is guarding her like a pit bull.
when she gets out from under her mom, then that is the time, to rekindle
a relationship. until then, you are going to be lonely, longing, and
pining away like a love sick man.

this story happened many years ago. a 16 year old girl used to ride the
bus, and her bus driver became in heat with her for want of a better
phrase. he called her house, and the father got a hold of him. he said
noway was a 20 year old bus driver supposed to be calling a 16 year old
girl. well, the father knew something none of us knew. that 4 years
difference in age at that time of life was a big thing. the 16 year old
girl caught up with the bus driver when she was 22 and pregnant. the bus
driver had to laugh. he said he didn't know what he was thinking. End of
story.flowerforyou