The only reason you haven't, is because no man can get enough of you in just one night!!!

All I can tell you, is that if you ever do it, make sure it is someone you will never have to see again.

Cuz if you wanted to see them again, they wouldn't be a one-night stand.

Allow me to say....

WOW! I can't believe it!

Are there really that many of you who actually haven't had a one night stand?.....or "I had one and I felt so dirty"....?????

I ain't gonna go into #'s....cause I never kept count....let's just say that I had a stunningly successful career as a semi-pro slut back in the day. (I will pad the odds and say less than 100...that should be close to accurate)

No, I do not..nor have I EVER had an STD.

One night stands do have thier time and place.

If you approach one hoping that it will blossom into a lasting love....then yeah, you will feel used.
If you approach it from a purely physical...gonna enjoy the pleasures of the flesh with no emotionality...it's fine.
When you both won't give your real name and it is clearly known that you just wanna get your freak on...it is a freaken BLAST!

I actually had to deduct 5 points off of a good friends MAN card the other day when a woman asked him to lock up his shop for middle of the day sex and he was too shy.....I deducted two more points when he admitted that he has been having reoccuring dreams about his ex.

Used to have em. No more for me. At this point in my life I want more BUT having said that, (I am std free so I can say this) I do not regret the fun and educational sex I had.

I know some guys who appreciate what I learned even if they don't know how I learned it!!!

Amen Sea....

I have had my fun and would prefer just one woman who can put up with me....but, I don't regret knowing the tricks that I learned!

It's like doing a Rubik's Cube -- briefly interesting but ultimately pointless.

There are three possible outcomes for a one night stand:

1. You hate it, and that's why it BECOMES a one nighter.
2. You love it, and that screws things up, because now you want more, and you can't have it.
3. You get an STD.

All three possible outcomes are negative. Therefore, I can not recommend it.
The temptation you feel for it is the same childish desire you have to eat a whole gallon of your favorite ice cream, or more accurately, for getting away with stealing something. It sounds great from the outside...sex fun without relationship obligations.

Oops! I forgot the other possible outcome:

4. You like it so much, especially the part where you don't give a damn about the other person, so you take it up as a profession.
Maybe that one is positive, depends on you.

have fun!

I have had HEAPS of meaningful overnight relationships...in the past!

All this holier than thou stuff has me chuckling into my socks.... I have met and slept with some of the most amazing people and lovers I had the fortune to meet.

Not an std in sight...it isn't difficult to protect oneself.

There is a liberation in being able to relax and enjoy another, for what it is...a fleeting and fun moment in time.

All of them were respectful, and joyful and fun... all of them were memorable, and I dont regret a single moment.


All of them have enriched my life...none of them have diminished who I am...nor I them.

I had a one night stand i stood around for ages got pulled for soliciting it was not worth it Anna x

I am gonna interpret that as a "No...I haven't had one"