i just don't think they exist although i wish they did


funny how so many people are searching for the "one"

that tells me not that many people are finding the "one"

If there isn't the one then why not take two or even three

There never will be "the One" although you might think so once you meet her, there will always be "someone" which is far more likely. Your values, beliefs, tolerance thresholds will determine if she's right for you.

i'm not sure that i believe in the concept of there being only one person for each of us.

i think that people come into our lives at certain moments when our need for them is greatest and that they serve a special purpose at that time. it doesn't necessarily mean it will be forever, but that they will have a lasting effect upon you.

i don't even believe that one person can fill all of our needs simultaneously. that doesn't mean i think having more than one partner is acceptable, just that the person who fills other needs might be a friend, a teacher, a parent, etc.

maybe putting the pressure of being 'the one' or being a 'forever love' on someone is just too much for them to bear?

We have many soulmates, probably millions, don't believe the myths. You have lots of soulmates, maybe white, black, hispanic, asian, indian, polynesian, arabic, or whatever. What is true is that nothing lasts forever, but you can always make it last as long as you can.

The more the merrier

Word, Popeye!

I think there is some"one" for everyone. Life and circumstance is whether or not you are able to keep them. I think it is all a matter of choice. You do not choose who you love, but you do choose to give up or to keep holding on. It is those that are dedicated that find the one and keep them for eternity.

I think people worry to much, about finding the "one" to fast? Slow down, life goes on for a LONG time. I didn't find my soulmate, till my 30's. Maybe we all try to grow up, to fast, obtain things to fast, just live life so fast, we forget to savor the days? Wish I had savored more of the time we had together.

We are 'the one' each of us a leaf on the same tree.

"The one" is a lot like Beauty and the Beast, everyone with a head on their shoulders knows in real life it wouldn't happen...kind of like how logical people know that "the one" is unrealistic and that love is really just a fairy tale in the long-run...a lot like Beauty and the Beast.

Simple reason why love doesn't exist, humanity killed it...how? With hate...I despise mankind for the hate it has created, and I despise mankind for hiding it behind a veil of "love".

Oh fear..why so negative?

Not negative, realistic.

Well...I am as real as they come. My fairtale happened. I found the person I am meant to be with. It can happen, if you allow it to.

Perhaps.

Ahh there's the fear I know! The one who is willing to see outside the realm of what is comfortable for you to accept.

Anything is a possibility, regardless of it not being all that realistic. Personally, I won't find love, I already did...and I screwed it up years ago. It won't happen again, simply because I never forgave myself for the mistakes I made. Sure I can date, and have a good time as you know, I'm even sociable in a social environment...but at the same time I can't stand most people, I can't stand the anger and aggression they exude, the pain they cause day in and day out with no remorse or backthought to it.

People with a high IQ, the very intelligent, we see the world as it is...turned over waiting to fall...

Honey...I think you know very well from meeting me in the flesh, that I am absolutely not lacking in the intelligence area. Love and life itself is what you make of it. Your choice, now choose wisely and stop insulting people.

I didn't insult anyone. And the lot of what I said really had nothing to do with you at all.

I'm a hopeless romantic but the concept of there being just "one" somewhere for all of us seems too much the stuff of man rather than one of God's practical jokes! I've been with two women that I truly thought were soul mates...and they thought the same of me. Perhaps - just perhaps - we make too big a deal out of finding "the" one. I do know...and believe in the laws of attraction...and the energy that flows from you - positive or negative - draws others like a magnet. Get your heart, mind and soul together...and the positive forces that flow...will allow you to find someone who is a soulmate. Does it matter so much if he or she is the only one...if you find happiness? I choose to be positive...I will find another of my soul mates.