was it so bad? where you in the wrong or was he or her?

hmmmmmmm...do I have to tell??????

It sucked and he was definatly in the wrong

HMMMM what if no-one was in the wrong? What if it just didn't work out?
Would you believe me if I said that
lol sorry I was just asking......its true!!!!

mine was by death, he died on me and left me with my heart broken
and it has been 8 years and now is when Im looking for a good
relationship,,is hard to find a good one when the last one was genuine,,

I have to say it was good, because it gave me my 2 babies (teens now).
But it didn't work out so well for me.

the last one sucked
my fault for becoming his floormat
his fault for asking for one

it ended... verry badly!!!

cant decide what i hate most about him
th fact that he held a gun to my head, that he held a knife to my
throat, that he raped me a week after we broke up n got me preg with my
sweet prescious baby boy, the fact that he abandoned me n the kids, the
fact that he was cheating with 9 dif girls that i kno of.... the fact
tha i got hpv. n eventualy cancer from it..

or the fact that despit all that, i still love him, n battle with myself
every day not to call him up n beg him back.....
or the fact that he still plays with my head n says hes sorry n that he
loves me...
havent decided what yet...
but i will

izzie !!!!

izzie, you have domestic violence/abuse going on here. think twice
before you go back. my opinion for what it is worth, having been in a
similar situation.

{{{{{{IZZIE}}}}}}}}

Just cause I felt I needed too

-Joanne

Passionate, fast, hopeful.

No one's fault. It is a miracle if things work out, I fear. Too many
things, some important, some trivial can get in the way. Different
styles. Different places in the cycles of life. Different chemistry.
Children that don't click with the new partner. God, the list can be a
long one....

I'm sorry for your loss Morena. I've been through it too....


Oceans

Morena...

It was HIS fault...and within six months my divorce will be final. He
was not willing to compromise, he was inconsiderate of my feelings and
wants, and I was not going to live the rest of my life with someone who
was NEVER wrong, and made me feel as if it was ALWAYS my fault.

Izzie.... My heart goes out to you. Be strong...people have good and bad
in them, and with a life partner it has to be damn near all good to be
worth it!


Oceans

puffins,, you are one of the lucky ones who have a chance to get away
and move on!!

thanks guys.... and jsut so you kno.. i have the best reasons in the
world to keep us apart... he was never mean to the kids, but i kno they
need a mom.. n with us together that wont happen...

No one was in the wrong. We were simply not right for each other. Bless
her heart I hope she is doing well.

The one before that I was wrong for dating a 25 year old.

The one before that she was insaine

And then there was last month.

Fault lies on both sides sadly sometimes.
When the reality and truth is finally discovered.

mine was ,,,excellent !!!!!!!! it lasted 5 years and was a lot of
fun

Morena....

I suppose you feel I am one of the lucky ones, but, believe me when I
tell you...that divorce is not an easy thing for me. To be starting over
at a time in my life when things should be so comfortable, like a nice
easy chair, is not a comforting thing for me to be dealing with right
now...especially at this stage of my life

-Joanne