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Topic: getting over shyness
Sandy9876's photo
Sun 09/27/09 01:45 PM
Update:

Ok I've discovered that talking in here is easy (of course your not face to face with anyone haha). I can talk to woman, children and elderly easy.
Guess it's just the man thing, attractive and opposite sex typescared .
lol I know I can't be the only one there haha. I suppose it comes down to the usual brokenheart story and a bit scared to go there again.
Oh well, I'm happy and I know I'll get there. Thanks everyone for your posts I'm sure it's helping others and not just meflowers

poohbearface19's photo
Thu 10/15/09 08:57 AM
people say shy yeah right haha natali you are not shy too me but iam ahha only wiht guy is super hot... oh yeah...i can flirt really good from far buy once guy coemsu p too me and starts talking i jsut freeze not sure whatoto say...

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Thu 10/15/09 09:05 AM

Update:

Ok I've discovered that talking in here is easy (of course your not face to face with anyone haha). I can talk to woman, children and elderly easy.
Guess it's just the man thing, attractive and opposite sex typescared .
lol I know I can't be the only one there haha. I suppose it comes down to the usual brokenheart story and a bit scared to go there again.
Oh well, I'm happy and I know I'll get there. Thanks everyone for your posts I'm sure it's helping others and not just meflowers


I'm in the boat as you, but trying to do better. This is one woman who completely gets what you're going through.frustrated

Goofball73's photo
Thu 10/15/09 09:13 AM

I used to be such an outgoing person when it came to men, very forward and and full of life however I've become the opposite after my last breakup a few years ago and it's really annoying.

I've become shy. I know there are many out there that are shy. A man I find attractive talks to me and I go all red and can barely speak!

How to start, any suggestions?


Well, tequilla helps.laugh laugh laugh

Sandy9876's photo
Thu 10/15/09 11:45 PM

people say shy yeah right haha natali you are not shy too me but iam ahha only wiht guy is super hot... oh yeah...i can flirt really good from far buy once guy coemsu p too me and starts talking i jsut freeze not sure whatoto say...

I know exactly what your saying. I freeze, look down, mumble something and by then he thinks I'm not interestedfrustrated

Sandy9876's photo
Thu 10/15/09 11:48 PM


Update:

Ok I've discovered that talking in here is easy (of course your not face to face with anyone haha). I can talk to woman, children and elderly easy.
Guess it's just the man thing, attractive and opposite sex typescared .
lol I know I can't be the only one there haha. I suppose it comes down to the usual brokenheart story and a bit scared to go there again.
Oh well, I'm happy and I know I'll get there. Thanks everyone for your posts I'm sure it's helping others and not just meflowers


I'm in the boat as you, but trying to do better. This is one woman who completely gets what you're going through.frustrated

Yeah, it's the trying to do better part that gets me. I've become a hybernater at the moment, I try and go out to bars and meet people but... I always tell myself I need a hobbie that involves meeting people but never really been enthused about any one thing. I'm a flitter, I jump from one hobbie to the next as fast as anything and never seem to stick to one thing.

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