yup. i think it was somewhere around albakerky

every step ive takin in life i used to be angry and question why... instead of looking at it as an opportunity to learn grow and become a stronger person. i see that now and look at things as possible learning experiences instead of sayin this sucks,why me, my happieness has increased doing this

every step ive takin in life i used to be angry and question why... instead of looking at it as an opportunity to learn grow and become a stronger person. i see that now and look at things as possible learning experiences instead of sayin this sucks,why me, my happieness has increased doing this


For most people, it does. Sometimes, it takes a catastrophe to change your thinking. Sometimes, it's just a matter of getting sick of being unhappy all the time. But in all cases, it takes growing up enough to take the responsibility for your life, good, bad, and indifferent. Owning your decisions, owning things that happened and understanding how you are the only person who is responsible for how you feel and what you do with your life.

For most people, it does. Sometimes, it takes a catastrophe to change your thinking. Sometimes, it's just a matter of getting sick of being unhappy all the time. But in all cases, it takes growing up enough to take the responsibility for your life, good, bad, and indifferent. Owning your decisions, owning things that happened and understanding how you are the only person who is responsible for how you feel and what you do with your life.
AND BEING OK WITH WHO YOU ARE

I think if U learn from the wrong turns and dont make the same mistakes, they wernt wrong turns after all

exactly....so if you learn and grow can you really call it bad if it makes you a wiser better person?

AND BEING OK WITH WHO YOU ARE


Being ok with who you are only comes after. But, if you do it right, that's how you come out of the tunnel. For many, including myself, it took quite a lot of counseling before I could come to terms with certain things. It's not an easy process but I wouldn't change it for anything.

Very good Mikey! I agree. I think we refer to this as 'live and learn'. If we do the learning we come out ahead.

Being ok with who you are only comes after. But, if you do it right, that's how you come out of the tunnel. For many, including myself, it took quite a lot of counseling before I could come to terms with certain things. It's not an easy process but I wouldn't change it for anything.
it came for me the same time i started to look at things differently i found i was comfortable in my skin when i put quantum physics(the power of thought )into action

For most people, it does. Sometimes, it takes a catastrophe to change your thinking. Sometimes, it's just a matter of getting sick of being unhappy all the time. But in all cases, it takes growing up enough to take the responsibility for your life, good, bad, and indifferent. Owning your decisions, owning things that happened and understanding how you are the only person who is responsible for how you feel and what you do with your life.



SuzinVa, just wanted to say I like your pic!!!

Topic: to take a chance
i can spend my life picking apart,
every little thing i see,
or judging people from the start,
because they're not how i think they should be,
i could pass by doors that could be unlocked,
because i might not like what lays behind,
or keep the ship of my spirit docked,
never set sail to see what i find.
i can let what other people think,
stop me from making a choice,
and in the pits of sorrow sink,
because i was to weak to use my voice.
instead i think i'll bare my soul,
and let my spirit dance,
i'll never wonder what may have been,
because i was willing to take a chance.

As long as I am headed in the right direction. a little detour is no problem.