People , I see alot of unhappy people here and out there. Why do you go
looking for trouble? Love is a complicated thing. Before looking for
love you need to find yourself. Do something great, or even just good.
Do something for someone else, like volenteer somewhere or just do
something off the wall. Take a chance and go wild and try something you
haven't done before. Find a hobby. Thing is ya gotta like yourself or at
least find yourself. And this takes time. I know we are in it for the
fast buck or immediate feel good, but the really good stuff comes with
time and maturity. Try it you might find something new about yourself.

very true chopperdan!!!

Hey chopperdan! good bedside manner!!!!!

Your too wise. I feel I should be paying some money for that advice.

i agree with that too.if people can't find themselves first, and they
can't help themselves out no one can .

you said alot of good things there dan..

Doc ya wanta split the fee?

Well I just see alot of anhappy people everywhere and I think if they
would take some time and just go with the flow or do something different
things might just turn out in a way you never expect.

nah dan! You got it goin' on....run with it , my man!!!

Thanks doc. I just feel great today cause I did something that made me
feel great and I got to meet a whole bunch of new friends and we did
alot of good in the community.

dan i was wondering.. and i think you feel the same way.. but your post
is so true.. so many having hang ups that they want to hold on to..
carrying it from here to there.. but confess that they want love but
really don't love themselves.. it is like a bandaid thinking that the
next person is going to fix the wrongs and make everything all right..
hard to admit for alot of people..

Very cool!!...glad you enjoyed yourself! Hey did you see mach's
post...Are you...? That dude is outrageous!...lol

Here's to all of you hoping your day went well and you took a moment to
remember our armed forces and the sacrifices they made, and here's
hoping tommarrow treats ya better. Take a chance people, you might like
what ya see.

lazy your so right. Just try and do something different, take a chance.
It feels so good! me and some bro's did something good for the community
today and damn I just felt so good aboutit. Man the feeling ya get when
you make some one else day, it really lifts ya up!

{{{{{{{{{{{Dan}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
I always seem to miss ya,,, Wise words my friend

keyword............communication with your partner..sometimes u fear
this... but till u try it and get over that fear you wont know where you
are at... and yes you should love yourself first and like also whom you
are..

great post Dan





......." love the one you're with!"

Very wise words indeed Dan.....thanks for sharing....

And you are sooo right...It makes you feel soo good to make another
persons day....and sometimes it takes so little...sometimes just a smile
or a hug makes a difference....

Cheers to you all....

Well said.

Well I just seen some people here with relationship probs and wanted to
give a little insight. It is not a sin to be single. Sometimes ya gotta
find that special place & time. And the only way is to find yourself. We
are all capable of great things, just gotta give it a chance.