Well, for one thing..

Get to know people before ya date, move in, get hitched..


How did ya not know her lifestyle was one of a drug user?


I actually dont even believe you didnt know. I really dont.


And thats what ya get.. ya get crap from people with major issues.


AND you could stop pretending you are clueless about people you meet.


You cant change people, ya cant save people, ya cant make people do things they dont wanna do.

In life, its hard enough to change yourself.



My advice, gain some maturity.

Oh hes gone..


WELL LET THAT BE A LESSON TO YA!


*shrugg* I dunno.


AND STAY OFF MY YARD!!!! damn kids *shakes fist*

my names mark,
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Sorry man. When I was 19, I made the tough decision of putting my son up for adoption. When he was around six months old, his mother started using hard drugs heavily, which led to her selling her body to support the habbit she shared with her father. She viewed our son as a meal ticket. I had to make sure that he was one person they could'nt use. I can understand your pain.

As for the internet being cold, that's bs. It's just like real life, Some people hate things about themselves so they spew random insensitive comments that they would normally get knocked on their a$$ for saying in person.

Keep your chin up. Always do what you think is right.

Hope your still looking at this page because after you get past the first few responses there are some people who will try and help.

First thing I did after a painful breakup is get seriously drunk for about 2 weeks solid with a wonderful friend who was there for me.
Not the most productive way to carry on but I needed it at the time.

The second thing I did was throw myself into my work and kept myself really busy in the evenings so I wasn't sitting there thinking caus that's the worst. Make yourself really tired so you sleep better.

The third thing and the hardest really is force yourself into some company with others. I know you don't want to, you want to be alone but seriously family and friends help even though they don't feel like it at the time.

All this won't make the pain go away but it helps it to fade over time. How much time depends on too many variables. Hope this helps :)

man i feel ya! but how about this i went to see a woman from another country a german woman last year! i'm still in love with her she used to call everyday and say i was the best and that i was her first love! i did so much for her i thought we would always be together when i got back home she started backing off... she said the phonebooths were she at acting up she said she dropped her cell in the water! anyway she said she had to go to rehab for high depression and drug use she said she would stay in touch she alway's complimented me saying sexy sexy voice handsome everything! she said she love me! well i never heard from her since plus she took me off her myspace friends list it's been 6 months her mom don't even call to see how i'm doing! i almost hate them i hurt so bad everyday it's killing me so much i wonder what could i have done wrong i feel like garbage everyday day..