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Topic: The Look At Me thread - part 2
BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Tue 09/22/09 08:43 PM
Billy love, I'm sorry but the left side of my computer is black and I didn't catch everything that was on the side... however...why are you trying soooo hard. Everything happens for a reason, don't cha know.. im not tryin at all lori. thats my point

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Tue 09/22/09 08:43 PM
first relationship. loved her. least think i did. she cheated on me a lot. 2nd relationship. she cheated on me a couple times. i think i l loved her. the most recent relationship...3rd of the 3 major ones..i didnt love her enough and i dont think she cheated on me at all. in between i was with a few ladies here and there. spans 9 years. question for you 4 and everyone who has an opinion. why is there a downward spiral? and why cant i love someone again? i just honestly feel like i do not waant to try. bc one of those 3 things will happen. what kind approach do i need to make myself happy with someone again? i know what to do when i get there. just dont know why i dont want to try anymore. at 27 i shouldnt feel thaat way should i? is that signs for3 concern? A.. Stop beating yourself up 2.. You will know when you find someone that you want to be with. C.. It is possible that you can be wrong about number 2 without the world ending

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Tue 09/22/09 08:44 PM
I can't wait for Spring Maybe I will get lucky and get something besides a dog. It is mating season

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Tue 09/22/09 08:47 PM
my number 2 or your number 2? jeff

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 09/22/09 08:50 PM
first relationship. loved her. least think i did. she cheated on me a lot. 2nd relationship. she cheated on me a couple times. i think i l loved her. the most recent relationship...3rd of the 3 major ones..i didnt love her enough and i dont think she cheated on me at all. in between i was with a few ladies here and there. spans 9 years. question for you 4 and everyone who has an opinion. why is there a downward spiral? and why cant i love someone again? i just honestly feel like i do not waant to try. bc one of those 3 things will happen. what kind approach do i need to make myself happy with someone again? i know what to do when i get there. just dont know why i dont want to try anymore. at 27 i shouldnt feel thaat way should i? is that signs for3 concern? A.. Stop beating yourself up 2.. You will know when you find someone that you want to be with. C.. It is possible that you can be wrong about number 2 without the world ending thanks, now I can see it all.. Billy why do you think you can't love again? And why do you think down time is a downward spiral? Down time is not a bad thing.. Keep your heart open and when the time is right you will know..what Jeff said on that. And give your self a break, time really is on your side. Your supposed to be doing other things right now.... and a girl may be a distraction. if ya know what I mean.

LewisW123 Joined Tue 06/30/09 Posts: 2403	Tue 09/22/09 08:52 PM
my number 2 or your number 2? jeff I think he meant his number 2 He is definitely right about A. Your 27. Don't panic. You're young. And yes, you are probably avoiding love to avoid the hurt that it has brought you before. When you find the right woman, or she finds you, you will take the chance again.

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Tue 09/22/09 08:52 PM
everything does happen for a reason. just depends if you chose the best decision with the opportunities you are presented bc if you don't watch out things start repeating themselves and you get stuck. paradoxical

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 09/22/09 08:53 PM


Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 09/22/09 08:53 PM
everything does happen for a reason. just depends if you chose the best decision with the opportunities you are presented bc if you don't watch out things start repeating themselves and you get stuck. paradoxical yeah..not a fun place to be..I know that one all to well

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Tue 09/22/09 08:56 PM
my number 2 or your number 2? jeff I think he meant his number 2 He is definitely right about A. Your 27. Don't panic. You're young. And yes, you are probably avoiding love to avoid the hurt that it has brought you before. When you find the right woman, or she finds you, you will take the chance again. makes sense. bc when i back out is when i feel pushed and rushed. thanks everyone

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Tue 09/22/09 08:56 PM
Billy my best advice is, love will come when it is the right time. I have dated twice in 8 years. As Jeff pointed out, you will know!

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Tue 09/22/09 09:00 PM
if i wasnt on my cell phone and could figure this out better i would give you aall hugs thumbs up flowers and all those emoticons. thank you aall very much

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Tue 09/22/09 09:01 PM
Yeah, I hate posting on my cell

LewisW123 Joined Tue 06/30/09 Posts: 2403	Tue 09/22/09 09:03 PM
if i wasnt on my cell phone and could figure this out better i would give you aall hugs thumbs up flowers and all those emoticons. thank you aall very much I want an emoticon for slapping someone in the a$$. You could use it to flirt with women, or show support for your fellow men (y'know, like in football)

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Tue 09/22/09 09:03 PM
Billy I'm having a real hard time taking you serious with that Gilligan picture up...

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Tue 09/22/09 09:04 PM
signs you aare true mingle diE hard users: you struggle and post on your cell phone

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Tue 09/22/09 09:05 PM


TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Tue 09/22/09 09:05 PM
Yep I do it when my son steals the computer

BillySuvol Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 4715	Tue 09/22/09 09:06 PM
Billy I'm having a real hard time taking you serious with that Gilligan picture up... just remember its up there bc of you ;)

LewisW123 Joined Tue 06/30/09 Posts: 2403	Tue 09/22/09 09:06 PM
signs you aare true mingle diE hard users: you struggle and post on your cell phone I'm going to have someone at my funeral text you guys a message. I'm writing it into my will.