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Wow! Yall are harsh! Thanks i like that!
 I am who i am. Im not from Galveston, Im from the mainland ,i just like it there and I was raised on the streets and i have been down that long road so its all good, there are plenty of woman out there that would understand where i comming from, i think? Yall are harsh!! Im not gunna let it bother me because i know i can find that special someone. Thanks for the positive feedback!  Oh by the way i am no poser. Thats funny.
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Wow! Yall are harsh! Thanks i like that! I am who i am. Im not from Galveston, Im from the mainland ,i just like it there and I was raised on the streets and i have been down that long road so its all good, there are plenty of woman out there that would understand where i comming from, i think? Yall are harsh!! Im not gunna let it bother me because i know i can find that special someone. Thanks for the positive feedback! Oh by the way i am no poser. Thats funny.
I don't think we are harsh. We are honest. We are constructive. There is a big difference. 
Just because people have boundaries, expectations, and higher goals does not make them unsympathetic. If, however, someone attacked you personally of things you cannot change -- that is insensitive. You have access to spelling and grammar tools on the internet so there really is no excuse for those errors. I am not from Galveston either but I know how to spell it or run my text through spell check.
Yeah, you are "posing" in those pix. They don't look genuine. Come on now … You are mimicking that urban look. If you want to look sincere, just smile big and snap a pic rather than trying to look hard. Remember this -- you ASKED for feedback. For the most part everyone here is very kind. If you ask, you have to prepare yourself for the answers you may not want to hear; otherwise, don't ask. You will like this site. We are fun if I do say so myself. 
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I do appreciate the feedback but i am not no poser. I came from the streets and thats just how i am.
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Hi Darrick
Just join in the conversation in the threads then people will get to know you 
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Edited by
LewisW123
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Fri 09/18/09 04:37 AM
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Wow, I agree that spelling and grammar errors are bad! How can you misspell your own city? 
Some of your pix are nice but what's up with the poser pix? Pursing your lips in some pix and the other looks like a mug shot (your profile pic). Are you trying to portray "thug life"?  
If that is 'you' then own it I guess. Quality girls with a little ambition would probably be turned off by that image though. We attract what we reflect.
The whole "lonely" story is off-putting for a strong woman. You should learn to be OK alone before you get into a relationship; otherwise you will be surrounded in dysfunction all the time. Being independent and NOT feeling alone when you are is an important part of being an adult. Again, if that is 'you' then I guess that's what you have to offer. There is a contradiction though in wanting a strong woman while also saying you are lonely. One does not go well with the other. Strong for strong and weak for weak is usually the formula. I wish you the best in discovering yourself and then in dating!! 
I have nothing to add. Melody hit all the important points. And she is right about asking for feedback. People may seem harsh, but from what I noticed on this board, they usually are just being honest and trying to help you attract more ladies. |
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