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Topic: I need to meet someone who can deal with me haveing M.S
Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/13/09 10:03 AM
I think it probably is harder to find someone when you have a disability of some sort. But its not always because people are shallow or uncaring. Some people have circumstances in their own lives that must take priority.

For example, I have 3 children. Two are young. 5 and 7 years old. I have to support them with my full time job and I have health issues as well. So, I could not take on the responsibility of cating for another person. Hell, I can't even take on the responsibilty of being in a relationship with a healthy person at this time in my life.


Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/13/09 10:04 AM
All that said, Fabo, you are a very nice person and there are people out there who will not care about the MS. Good luck to you. flowerforyou

fabo123's photo
Sun 09/13/09 10:41 AM

All that said, Fabo, you are a very nice person and there are people out there who will not care about the MS. Good luck to you. flowerforyou
YES I think thats rite and im just going to wait for someone ok hows your life going good I hope ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:

peppydog50's photo
Sun 09/13/09 05:42 PM
Good luck to you and everyone else out there. I am sure you will find someone.

fabo123's photo
Sun 09/13/09 05:51 PM

wow that's the slowest double post i've ever seen! noway
WHATS the slowest poast youve ever seen cause I didnt poast but two in the last two months ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:

southernangel7193's photo
Sun 09/13/09 08:27 PM
flowerforyou flowerforyou for you and theres nothing wrong with someone having MS.. take care

fabo123's photo
Mon 09/14/09 05:55 AM

flowerforyou flowerforyou for you and theres nothing wrong with someone having MS.. take care
WELL thanks but im glad you think that its th way I feil to but how are you doing and what do you like to do ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:

EquusDancer's photo
Mon 09/14/09 08:37 AM
I've been appalled at how many men up and leave their wives when they are diagnosed with MS. Everyone at my mom's support group loves my dad because he is there for her. I know the men diagnosed with MS get screwed over too, and that sucks as well.

Anymore the diagnoses and what causes it is crap. The Vit D is the newest thing, but my mom was a very outdoors, no sunblock type of person from childhood on. Big milk drinker, etc. There was no lack of Vit D growing up.

It boils down to they don't know, and it makes people feel better to think about something.

In mom's case, she's managed to keep the symptoms basically holding. She's big into the herbs, multi-vitamins, etc. She's not on medications.

fabo123's photo
Mon 09/14/09 12:02 PM

I've been appalled at how many men up and leave their wives when they are diagnosed with MS. Everyone at my mom's support group loves my dad because he is there for her. I know the men diagnosed with MS get screwed over too, and that sucks as well.

Anymore the diagnoses and what causes it is crap. The Vit D is the newest thing, but my mom was a very outdoors, no sunblock type of person from childhood on. Big milk drinker, etc. There was no lack of Vit D growing up.

It boils down to they don't know, and it makes people feel better to think about something.

In mom's case, she's managed to keep the symptoms basically holding. She's big into the herbs, multi-vitamins, etc. She's not on medications.
WELL I aint on no meds for that either all im on is I get an I.V once amonth for it ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:

EquusDancer's photo
Mon 09/14/09 03:27 PM


I've been appalled at how many men up and leave their wives when they are diagnosed with MS. Everyone at my mom's support group loves my dad because he is there for her. I know the men diagnosed with MS get screwed over too, and that sucks as well.

Anymore the diagnoses and what causes it is crap. The Vit D is the newest thing, but my mom was a very outdoors, no sunblock type of person from childhood on. Big milk drinker, etc. There was no lack of Vit D growing up.

It boils down to they don't know, and it makes people feel better to think about something.

In mom's case, she's managed to keep the symptoms basically holding. She's big into the herbs, multi-vitamins, etc. She's not on medications.
WELL I aint on no meds for that either all im on is I get an I.V once amonth for it ok
.flowerforyou glasses :smile:


How is the tysabri working for you? Well, I hope. There's a lot of news out on it.

fabo123's photo
Mon 09/14/09 06:11 PM
YES there is and it seems to be working for me ok there is some thing about TYSAIBRY in the library ok thats all I know ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:


I've been appalled at how many men up and leave their wives when they are diagnosed with MS. Everyone at my mom's support group loves my dad because he is there for her. I know the men diagnosed with MS get screwed over too, and that sucks as well.

Anymore the diagnoses and what causes it is crap. The Vit D is the newest thing, but my mom was a very outdoors, no sunblock type of person from childhood on. Big milk drinker, etc. There was no lack of Vit D growing up.

It boils down to they don't know, and it makes people feel better to think about something.

In mom's case, she's managed to keep the symptoms basically holding. She's big into the herbs, multi-vitamins, etc. She's not on medications.
WELL I aint on no meds for that either all im on is I get an I.V once amonth for it ok
.flowerforyou glasses :smile:


How is the tysabri working for you? Well, I hope. There's a lot of news out on it.

fabo123's photo
Tue 09/15/09 12:32 PM
YES I know there aint but its makeing ather ppl see that there aint nothing arong with ppl just cause they have a little dissablity thats what ppl dont under stand ok so how are you doing good I hope ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:

fabo123's photo
Wed 09/16/09 05:49 PM
WELL its been about 6years ago I got diagnosed with it and she left me about atwo years but im not a hard person to get along with ok so in one since I know what ppl deal with when they lose the love of there life ok it sucks ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:

robina513's photo
Wed 09/16/09 06:55 PM
I have ms aswell and i finally look at it this way ifn the person loves you they will take you as you are no matter what happens.i just found out I had it in 2006 and it was like a culture shock to the man that i love but he stuck by me until things got really bad when I found out I had bipolar and I walked away from him.That was the worst mistake I have ever done in my life.I don't know if I will ever get my happieness back because I let my issues get the best of me ,But one thing i can say he stood by me every step of the way.Only thing I can say is have hope and believe that one day THAT special person will come along when you least exspect it and sweep you off your feet and accept everything that comes with you rather it be good or bad and handle it in thier own way..GOOD LUCK TOO YOU!! GOD work in mysterious ways !!

fabo123's photo
Wed 09/16/09 07:33 PM
WHATS so slow me I was on another sight ok sorry ok I didnt see you was on hear ok.flowerforyou glasses

fabo123's photo
Wed 09/16/09 07:38 PM
ITS been about 7 years for me now but I know other people have had it longer than me ok but it was my ex shes the one that cauldnt take me haveing it ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:

fabo123's photo
Fri 09/18/09 06:13 AM
Well the TYSAIBRY is doing me some good ok how are you doing good I hope ok.flowerforyou glasses :smile:

fabo123's photo
Fri 09/18/09 06:19 AM
Well I under stand that but I was with my better haff for about 11years ok and she just took me to my moms and droped me off ok but I just go on now I need someone that can take me haveing this crap ok.flowerforyou :smile:

shortuglybald's photo
Sat 10/03/09 02:32 AM

Well I under stand that but I was with my better haff for about 11years ok and she just took me to my moms and droped me off ok but I just go on now I need someone that can take me haveing this crap ok.flowerforyou :smile:

I sure hope it all works out for you! My prayers are with you.
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