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Topic: Why on so many dating sites?
dan44221's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:27 PM
Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)

Quietman_2009's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:28 PM
cause nice guys finish last?

ledi180's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:28 PM
asleep

welcome and good luck

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:29 PM
Welcome



Tammy:heart:

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Wed 09/09/09 07:29 PM
I do not remember reading on any of these sites where it is required to respond. It is possibly rude (this has been debated a million times), but you need to keep on plugging and not whine about it. Whining and venting will not help...

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Wed 09/09/09 07:30 PM

Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)




rant on baby...we all feel that way at times...

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:31 PM
drinker Welcome to the site,

and watch out, they pick on nice guys in here.


tohyup's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:32 PM

Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)

Did you tell them you are a millionaire ?......laugh .
I bet they will reply........waving .

earthytaurus76's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:32 PM
shocked a nice guy?


HERE?

dan44221's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:34 PM
rofl
ha ha not whining really just thought it would be something to get people going! rant

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Wed 09/09/09 07:37 PM

rofl
ha ha not whining really just thought it would be something to get people going! rant


not really....we're used to it...heh
rofl rofl rofl

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:38 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Wed 09/09/09 07:40 PM
I use one other site that is more suited for dating; I consider this more of a social network for friends.

Do you honestly think if someone is looking for “the” one that he or she would be in one small niche of a site? With all the people in this world, the chances of finding the right one is near impossible anyway and to only use one dating tool diminishes a person’s chances even more.

As someone else said, there are no rules to replying. Sometimes a nice “no thank you” receives a nasty reply – and tis better to just not respond.

If a person doesn’t reply, you are probably not their type by attraction or commonalities.

I have a 40% success rate in return emails when I initiate; I think that is about average.

Welcome and good luck.

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Wed 09/09/09 07:38 PM

Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)


In fact , some people are not looking for anything special .They just want to have virtual fun :wink: :wink: :wink: :wink:

Quietman_2009's photo
Wed 09/09/09 07:42 PM
the only other one I go to is bookofmatches and I'm permanently banned from their forums (again)

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Wed 09/09/09 07:43 PM
Wag More, Bark Less

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Wed 09/09/09 07:49 PM
But I'm such a nice guy so why aren't the ladies falling all over me?:cry:

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Wed 09/09/09 07:52 PM
Wow..harsh..no I think people try different things cause they get discouraged or no good replys or no replys at all..or you have to pay or something..I haven't dated a lot off the sites..I'm only on 2 that I know of..oh wait maybe 3..yahoo personals..anyhow when your done ranting..;)...hit me up on yahoo mess. At mspink1974

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Wed 09/09/09 08:00 PM
Hmmm, interesting in sight...I understand your ranting, but have you really tried to email alot of people on here?
I am sure most people respond to their messages when they can get to them

dan44221's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:09 PM
Not on here. I'm new here :)
But I was on a different site for a little while. Emailed a number of people with almost 0 response (be nice :smile: ). I need meet one terrific woman and we hung out for a few months but we were looking for 2 different things and decided to go our separate ways.

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Wed 09/09/09 08:09 PM

Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)


Don't assume everyone is like that and you'll be ok.

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