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to tell someone i love them, allthough not hard at all, it takes a lonnngggg time for me to actually make that choice. sounds like you have had some bad experiences. I am like except I make the choice but do not realize it for a while |
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But to say "I love you" to anybody anymore -- that just opens up some doors that need to stay locked. I do feel you, Lex; truly do ... Wise, wise ... Alas and alack ... Equivalent (for all practical purposes) to the declaration: "You now have my permission to chop me up into an infinite number of minuscule pieces" -- this is hardly rational. Particularly since providing a go-ahead of this nature seems, inevitably, to result in them going ahead in that very direction.  ...Just one guy's experience(s). ...
...  ... Horrific Ouch ... 
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But to say "I love you" to anybody anymore -- that just opens up some doors that need to stay locked. I do feel you, Lex; truly do ... Wise, wise ... Alas and alack ... Equivalent (for all practical purposes) to the declaration: "You now have my permission to chop me up into an infinite number of minuscule pieces" -- this is hardly rational. Particularly since providing a go-ahead of this nature seems, inevitably, to result in them going ahead in that very direction. ...Just one guy's experience(s). ...
... ... Horrific Ouch ...
Well, it's a learning process -- you get to know what works and what doesn't. It can be painful, but only to the extent that you allow yourself to be in the situation where that sort of pain is an inevitability. One can always make the choice not to be in that position again. |
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to tell someone you dont love him/her anymore :(
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to tell someone you dont love him/her anymore :( Strictly speaking that was not a choice, but I'll take it you mean to say it is tougher to tell someone you do not love them back. 
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Well, it's a learning process -- you get to know what works and what doesn't. It can be painful, but only to the extent that you allow yourself to be in the situation where that sort of pain is an inevitability. One can always make the choice not to be in that position again. Yes it is, and I too have received my PhD in the School of Hard Knocks, and seek not further education at that particular Uni!! But, oh, the scar tissue ... Still, I've had beautiful relationships in the main, so hold great and eternal hope in love's promise. I'm still best friends w/ most of my yestermen. Though a devout cynic, I remain an optimist in earnest w/ great and perpetual hope. It is as if supernatural, I'm blowing some fairy dust your way ... It is all about careful choices, not inaction. Life is long. I'm confident we will live, so love!!! That VERY MUCH includes you, my dear friend! ... 
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My best girlfriend has told me that when someone says they love her and she doesn't love them back, she just says, "Thanks".
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Well, it's a learning process -- you get to know what works and what doesn't. It can be painful, but only to the extent that you allow yourself to be in the situation where that sort of pain is an inevitability. One can always make the choice not to be in that position again. Yes it is, and I too have received my PhD in the School of Hard Knocks, and seek not further education at that particular Uni!! But, oh, the scar tissue ... Still, I've had beautiful relationships in the main, so hold great and eternal hope in love's promise. I'm still best friends w/ most of my yestermen. Though a devout cynic, I remain an optimist in earnest w/ great and perpetual hope. It is as if supernatural, I'm blowing some fairy dust your way ... It is all about careful choices, not inaction. Life is long. I'm confident we will live, so love!!! That VERY MUCH includes you, my dear friend! ...
Ah, if only it could be that way....! But I appreciate the sentiment nonetheless. You are, as always, a breath of fresh air.... 
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I think if I am telling someon I love you and it is in a friendship capacity then that would be easier for me. I think for me to say the words to a Lover opens up a whole new can of worms..
That would be equally as hard as telling someone I dont' love you. I believe in honesty and have had to tell someone that when they have said I love you... I have looked at them and told them I love the time we have shared. Good thought topic. |
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I think if I am telling someon I love you and it is in a friendship capacity then that would be easier for me. I think for me to say the words to a Lover opens up a whole new can of worms.. That would be equally as hard as telling someone I dont' love you. I believe in honesty and have had to tell someone that when they have said I love you... I have looked at them and told them I love the time we have shared. Good thought topic. Thank you. Even a blind squirrel finds a nut occasionally. |
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