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Topic: To damn much
AngelMapper's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:05 PM

maybe when you quit looking she will find you.


I have given up, all together I just dnt wanna deal with it any more... For now on ill let them come to me..LOL allthough nothing ever gets done by sitting around..

May777's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:06 PM
thankyou,.that is so cool,..

I guess I`m kindof wondering as I been hanging with a friend I knew back in grade school,...

it doesn`t seem to be goin past a friendship ( just a little ) frustrated but I don`t want to push the envelope,..maybe I`ll wait for a crisis too,..


earthytaurus76's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:07 PM

i likes my men a lil mean and egotistical its kinda sexy



laugh :thumbsup:

May777's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:07 PM


I guess I don't understand why some one so young would worry so much about such things...


I never have been like every one else I guess for my age range, even growing up I never had fun cause I just didnt see what they did as fun id rather readf and learn some thing I guess. Now days I am a fun person but Im philisophical and I think about things I shouldnt for my age..


maybe you are an old soul in a young man`s body

AngelMapper's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:08 PM


i likes my men a lil mean and egotistical its kinda sexy



laugh :thumbsup:


I wouldnt say im egotistical but Im confident in what I want and what im going to do.

MelodyGirl's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:08 PM
This is not an uncommon problem. I believe most of us are in the same predicament.

As long as you are comfortable in your own skin, and you don’t settle, you open yourself to find someone that compliments you.

If you don’t, it’s not the end of the world. I am a firm believer in the fact that people do not have to find life partners in order to be complete and happy.

Surround yourself in education, a good career, volunteering, friends and travel – and life will be rewarding.


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Sat 09/05/09 08:09 PM




Now I'm curious...how long did it take you to realize she was cold-hearted, cruel and had no personality? Seems like that's the sort of thing one would notice BEFORE they started dating someone, not after the relationship is over, right?huh


Well It started after one of my x's was raped, well she never liked my x (that I can understand) but like I was still really good friends with my x hell itd been 3 years sence we dated...well I went and saw her in the hospital and when I get home shes just going off about how im going around cheating on her and how my x is a slut etc and I told her hey dude shes laying in hopital bed after being raped and beaten u could show some sympathy even just on a person to person bases dnt have to like her but damn... and it just got worse, like she kicked me out of MY apartment because she dint want to go to her moms and left me high and dry... there was alot of stuff.


I'm just wondering if she was like that before you got together, or did she change personalities after you were dating?


She changed after we started dating, she was the guilt trip sort, made me feel bad about things I shouldnt have. No im not the kind that I let my ambition run over people eather.... I guess my problem is I care to much for every one...were as years ago I was cold and very different.


Interesting. Well, people suck but you can't let it get to you. And you can't decide all women are this, or all women are that. Everyone is different. You ended up dating a woman who turned into a b!tch, it happens, but you can't let that color your view of other women.

Personally, I've never said I wanted a nice guy (I'm not that nice myself, so it wouldn't be a good fit). I want a guy who's intelligent and clever and knows how to bounce back from his mistakes. One who doesn't whine when stuff goes to hell, and one who can amuse the hell out of me. But that's just me....

So you learned a lesson, just forget about her. Also, in the future, don't let anyone kick you out of YOUR own apartment, if she didn't want to go back to her mom's that's her problem, but I'd be damned if she would have kicked me out of my own home.

pob000's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:09 PM

Ive found the type that try to break u and mold u to what they want u to do, or the type that simply just doesnt care and wants ntohing to do with your personal interest or opinions...




This

AngelMapper's photo
Sat 09/05/09 08:09 PM



I guess I don't understand why some one so young would worry so much about such things...


I never have been like every one else I guess for my age range, even growing up I never had fun cause I just didnt see what they did as fun id rather readf and learn some thing I guess. Now days I am a fun person but Im philisophical and I think about things I shouldnt for my age..


maybe you are an old soul in a young man`s body


Ive been told that before... I dnk I just I dnt feel I belong here I soppouse...Like I feel and allways have different some how distant to the world. My biggest thing is women seem to have no clas now days were as I like romance and to I guess win there heart...now days its meet spread legs bye...(no offence intended here just a generalisastion)

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