Topic: What is the hardest thing to do??
Cafemocha's photo
Fri 09/04/09 10:46 PM
Edited by Cafemocha on Fri 09/04/09 10:47 PM
Being yourself shouldn't be hard. I think about it like this I take care of myself, pay my own bills, take care of my family, and I am a good person anyone who has a problem with that isn't worth my time.

The hardest thing for me to do is give up on something as silly as it may sound. I don't want to be a quitter and like Kanye said "giving up is way harder than trying".

jessehodgejr's photo
Fri 09/04/09 10:49 PM
quiting might be the hardest thing 2 do but going back is easy

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Fri 09/04/09 10:56 PM
right on cafe, thats awesome

good to see someone with a positive outlook on life

1956CLEO's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:02 PM
Edited by 1956CLEO on Fri 09/04/09 11:03 PM
For me letting go is hardest, I knew we were no good together, even so it took a year to finally cut it off. I find that with most of my relationships. Lol do I have issues?

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Fri 09/04/09 11:07 PM

For me letting go is hardest, I knew we were no good together, even so it took a year to finally cut it off. I find that with most of my relationships. Lol do I have issues?


letting go is hard when you know that letting go and moving onto to "nothing" or "something not anywhere near like you had before" is just as hard as being yourself, as i stated in the topic....so in that case, i dont think u have issues at all

jessehodgejr's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:08 PM
i keep going back i just cant say no to her she has my hart no matter what she has done 2 me

1956CLEO's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:11 PM

i keep going back i just cant say no to her she has my hart no matter what she has done 2 me



I feel the same, though I don't think of myself as a victim. We just did'nt mesh.

madamx7316's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:13 PM
i dont seem to have a problem being myself

my problem is being able to accept things that i can not change, i guess i have always been ms fixit so accepting that i can not fix something or someone , etc... is hard for me to do i think

jessehodgejr's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:14 PM
if i am a victim it is my own i do it to my self

1956CLEO's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:15 PM
Edited by 1956CLEO on Fri 09/04/09 11:17 PM

i dont seem to have a problem being myself

my problem is being able to accept things that i can not change, i guess i have always been ms fixit so accepting that i can not fix something or someone , etc... is hard for me to do i think



Natural nurturers, most women are. I think there is a thin line between making sure they are ok and trying to making them over.
I don't think we realize how it is interpreted

jessehodgejr's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:17 PM
i think it comes with age an 18 year old just wants 2 change some one

munchiebellic's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:18 PM
Its not hard to be myself. Its hard for me to break out of my shell when i meet someone in person. I'm not am exciting person. I never know what to talk about when i first meet someone. So i am usually quiet.

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:19 PM

So as cliche as it sounds....being yourself is the hardest thing to do.

But thanks to the right people, the wrong people and a couple mistakes I am going to do my best to get back to being myself.

Anyone else have a problem with "being yourself?"

If not, what is the hardest thing to do for you??


Haha...I'm my self intentionally to see how many people I can scare away from me. I have no hard thing to do, if I want to do it I simply do it. Though it would seem not a lot of people are all that good at taking the certain brand of honesty I have to offer.

Such is life, live, die...inbetween, pay taxes.

jessehodgejr's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:23 PM
i am shy unless im drunk

munchiebellic's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:32 PM

i am shy unless im drunk

Maybe thats what i need to do. Drink more. I never have had much of a social life. I grew up too fast and was sheltered as a kid. And i never had my party stage.

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Fri 09/04/09 11:33 PM


So as cliche as it sounds....being yourself is the hardest thing to do.

But thanks to the right people, the wrong people and a couple mistakes I am going to do my best to get back to being myself.

Anyone else have a problem with "being yourself?"

If not, what is the hardest thing to do for you??


Haha...I'm my self intentionally to see how many people I can scare away from me. I have no hard thing to do, if I want to do it I simply do it. Though it would seem not a lot of people are all that good at taking the certain brand of honesty I have to offer.

Such is life, live, die...inbetween, pay taxes.


You're doing it wrong, I'm not scared of you.:wink:

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:33 PM


i am shy unless im drunk

Maybe thats what i need to do. Drink more. I never have had much of a social life. I grew up too fast and was sheltered as a kid. And i never had my party stage.


I started that stage at 11...slow-poke.tongue2

jessehodgejr's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:34 PM
mine went on for 2 long just now pulling my head out of my @$$ an glad 2 b doing it

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 09/04/09 11:35 PM



So as cliche as it sounds....being yourself is the hardest thing to do.

But thanks to the right people, the wrong people and a couple mistakes I am going to do my best to get back to being myself.

Anyone else have a problem with "being yourself?"

If not, what is the hardest thing to do for you??


Haha...I'm my self intentionally to see how many people I can scare away from me. I have no hard thing to do, if I want to do it I simply do it. Though it would seem not a lot of people are all that good at taking the certain brand of honesty I have to offer.

Such is life, live, die...inbetween, pay taxes.


You're doing it wrong, I'm not scared of you.:wink:


Didn't say everyone, I keep my friend list shorter this way. Less to manage in the long-run. Besides, we stalk each other...err...erhm...eat? Damn, that doesn't make sense at all...I'm losing my touch. Oh, I can just start a random conversation about nothing!

So anyway, I was driving today...sorry, I lost myself...what the hell am I doing again?

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Fri 09/04/09 11:36 PM




So as cliche as it sounds....being yourself is the hardest thing to do.

But thanks to the right people, the wrong people and a couple mistakes I am going to do my best to get back to being myself.

Anyone else have a problem with "being yourself?"

If not, what is the hardest thing to do for you??


Haha...I'm my self intentionally to see how many people I can scare away from me. I have no hard thing to do, if I want to do it I simply do it. Though it would seem not a lot of people are all that good at taking the certain brand of honesty I have to offer.

Such is life, live, die...inbetween, pay taxes.


You're doing it wrong, I'm not scared of you.:wink:


Didn't say everyone, I keep my friend list shorter this way. Less to manage in the long-run. Besides, we stalk each other...err...erhm...eat? Damn, that doesn't make sense at all...I'm losing my touch. Oh, I can just start a random conversation about nothing!

So anyway, I was driving today...sorry, I lost myself...what the hell am I doing again?


Just focus on the stalking and obsessing, it's easier that way.smooched