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| Topic: Would you marry him/her...... | |
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So your decision is influenced by others experiences..
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I might not ever get married. A lot of good people with absolute horror stories of marriage. If they can't do it - well - maybe its not worth it. 
I was stupid -- I thought I could help her. Instead, it almost killed me. Replace "it" with "her mother" and it would be somewhat more accurate. Intellectually, I know that marriage, per se, wasn't at fault here -- it was my own idiot decision. But I've always been a firm believer in the whole "preventative medicine" concept. Why even take the chance on putting myself in anything remotely resembling a similar situation? Like Barney Fife always said, "Nip it in the bud." |
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Actually I liked being "married"...I liked the cooking for someone and having someone there for me. Unfortunately I picked the wrong guy.
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again? After you see the reason to leave has been rectified. 
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I honestly hope I never get married once, let alone twice
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People change? Um yeah, he is still playing video games when he is awake, lying, spending too much money he doesn't have, and generally being unreliable. He told me so himself. Same... same.... Geez. Sounds like a quality dude everything you have mentioned.
I know. I was an idiot. You weren't/aren't an idiot. You're not with him anymore, right? You're a smart gal! |
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Yes, people change. I hope he does change for his sake, for the sake of our children and for the sake of his fiancee. However, even if he did and even if he was single I would never go back. I've already moved on with my life and I like where I'm going.
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again? After you see the reason to leave has been rectified.
Hell no............. 
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I don't see my ex becoming sane, anytime soon. ... Word! ...
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Just carrying the discussion further......... Buts guys people change. Don't they deserve second chance ? In quite a few cases, one chance is one too many. 
 ... Word ... Pt 2 ...
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again? After you see the reason to leave has been rectified.
No.. I would not. I harbor no ill will, I actually wish him every joy & success. That has nothing to do with ME... I moved on years ago and there is no iota of my being that would desire being his life partner again. |
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Actually I liked being "married"...I liked the cooking for someone and having someone there for me. Unfortunately I picked the wrong guy. Gypsy, I will help you out. We can get married, you can cook for me (I need to eat) and I will be there for you (platonically, of course). And we can each hire Chipendale dancers to take care of our more Base needs. Deal? 
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Actually I liked being "married"...I liked the cooking for someone and having someone there for me. Unfortunately I picked the wrong guy. Gypsy, I will help you out. We can get married, you can cook for me (I need to eat) and I will be there for you (platonically, of course). And we can each hire Chipendale dancers to take care of our more Base needs. Deal?
You understand, of course, that this sort of thing will most likely render you permanently unmatchable on eHarmony, right? |
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Actually I liked being "married"...I liked the cooking for someone and having someone there for me. Unfortunately I picked the wrong guy. Gypsy, I will help you out. We can get married, you can cook for me (I need to eat) and I will be there for you (platonically, of course). And we can each hire Chipendale dancers to take care of our more Base needs. Deal?
You understand, of course, that this sort of thing will most likely render you permanently unmatchable on eHarmony, right? Lex, you understand that I am unmatchable with or without someone feeding me, right? Were you unmatchable based on the goat thing? |
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Just carrying the discussion further......... Buts guys people change. Don't they deserve second chance ? Sure, they can have their next second chance with someone else... They already used up their second, third, fourth, etc. chances with me... |
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Actually I liked being "married"...I liked the cooking for someone and having someone there for me. Unfortunately I picked the wrong guy. Gypsy, I will help you out. We can get married, you can cook for me (I need to eat) and I will be there for you (platonically, of course). And we can each hire Chipendale dancers to take care of our more Base needs. Deal?
You understand, of course, that this sort of thing will most likely render you permanently unmatchable on eHarmony, right? Lex, you understand that I am unmatchable with or without someone feeding me, right? Were you unmatchable based on the goat thing? Well, they didn't come right out and say it, but my impression was that I wasn't a.) religious and b.) hobophobic enough to suit their special needs. The goat thing -- the fact that I can't seem to be turned into one -- keeps me unmatchable HERE! (That and about 42,816 other things.) 
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