Your opening sentence says it all!
Next time he calls...and/or you except his call.......just repeat what you wrote.

It is straightforward and to the point!


Most won't argue the point and will leave well enough alone.

Be Honest with your self and follow your instincts....he isn't there with you yet, your still within your comfort zone and you are in control of your situation...NOT HIM!
Besides, he has classic power and control issues.....he needs professional help.

I hope everything works out for you!

this guy is bad news and you need to call him up and tell him that you never want to talk to him again and say that he hurt your feelings. I mean this guy sounds abusive and it will only get worse if you keep going with this :(

like sands through an hour glass so are our days of our lives





this is cottonelle and these are the days of our lives

Fear is paralyzing. You are asking for advice, yet all you need to do is look into your own heart and mind. Are you really going to listen to any of us that care, or live in fear? Your choice. And it IS a choice. You just need to make it, and then live with it.

My advice... Tell him you are taking a few days off, if you can put your child with a sitter that would be great. If you can afford to go somewhere for long weekend do it.

Just answer the phone calls pertaining to you child..

Spend the first 24 hours just sleeping and relaxing... then when you are rested really think about it from your heart and your mind.

Come up with the best decision for you and your child. Then follow thorugh with it.

Best of luck.. I have been in this situation before and it is bloody hard and painful.

Excellent advice! I agree, and if he can't or won't give you space, he is not the one for you. Follow your intuition on this one. Peace to you