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Topic: No close or long-term friends
IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 09/02/09 04:41 PM
I am still wondering what I missed.. I didn't see anger or anything resembling anger, what the h3ll is the big deal

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Wed 09/02/09 04:44 PM
I didn't see any either, so I dunno

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Wed 09/02/09 04:48 PM
Think it was on page two

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 09/02/09 04:49 PM
Think it was on page two I know the reference I just don't get the thought process.. Only certain people can have thoughts or opinions and if others don't agree they are angry?

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 09/02/09 04:49 PM
I wasn't being defensive..I'm not even remotely mad..I was just wanting to attempt to explain that I have by choice and because of my situation right now been without a circle of friends... and there is no tornado path behind me... It's not a deal at all, let alone a big deal...oh my

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Wed 09/02/09 04:50 PM
Think it was on page two I know the reference I just don't get the thought process.. Only certain people can have thoughts or opinions and if others don't agree they are angry? No I don't think a difference of opinion was it.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Wed 09/02/09 04:56 PM
I wasn't being defensive..I'm not even remotely mad..I was just wanting to attempt to explain that I have by choice and because of my situation right now been without a circle of friends... and there is no tornado path behind me... It's not a deal at all, let alone a big deal...oh my I know..

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Wed 09/02/09 04:58 PM
I wasn't being defensive..I'm not even remotely mad..I was just wanting to attempt to explain that I have by choice and because of my situation right now been without a circle of friends... and there is no tornado path behind me... It's not a deal at all, let alone a big deal...oh my I know.. Thanks... I'm sitting here thinking how maybe I could have worded it differently but maybe would not have mattered... I was being nice.

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Wed 09/02/09 05:01 PM
Biglife....I have found the same common denominator throughout my life... My ex husband had no longterm friendships, no historical connections....he was aloof and kept himself guarded.... I discovered after the separation of us....that this is his MO...he just moves onto the next with nary a backward glance...including his four kids. Some people are comfortable in their anonymity...they prefer that, and yes I am cautious when meeting people who appear to not have a history...or historical friendships... The ex is not the only one...I have met many that are just so....and their bridge burning skills are profoundly well honed.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Wed 09/02/09 05:06 PM
I know tons of losers/jerks who have a million friends. At the end of your life, if you have at least 5 good friends, I mean reaaaaally good friends then your good. The rest are all fluff most of the time. Soooooooooo class: Alot of friends does not mean good friends/people Most of the people we call "friends" are just "aqaintences"

Quietman_2009 Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7430	Wed 09/02/09 05:10 PM
I used to have lots of friends till they made me angry by not agreeing with me now I just have acquaintances

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 09/03/09 03:25 PM
I used to have lots of friends till they made me angry by not agreeing with me now I just have acquaintances (((Gyps))) so true!

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 09/03/09 03:26 PM
This thread is still around?? Peace out everyone

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Thu 09/03/09 03:37 PM
I have a lot of friends but just a few that are very close friends. I have been kind of a loner most of my life, don't mind doing or traveling alone..