Topic: question
nurjoyce's photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:14 AM
< 1 year ago my weight was 50 pounds heavier, although I was not obese and I thought I looked HWP some guys did not call back for another date (not just this site) now i frequently get emails from guys back then asking to go out again.
would you give them a second chance or assume that they just are interested now because you fit the look?
(5 ft 5 inches 120 pounds)

lcjw's photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:18 AM
I wouldn't. You look great! May I ask you what did you do to loose 50 lbs? I need to loose 20.

bgeorge's photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:19 AM
heya long time no see...personally i would tell them to **** off...
you've always looked great and have great posts...their loss i say...
lol or you could meet up, show off the new bod...then say "sorry, but i'm way outta your league, babe"

no photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:23 AM
Would want someone to give you a second chance????

Winx's photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:35 AM

< 1 year ago my weight was 50 pounds heavier, although I was not obese and I thought I looked HWP some guys did not call back for another date (not just this site) now i frequently get emails from guys back then asking to go out again.
would you give them a second chance or assume that they just are interested now because you fit the look?
(5 ft 5 inches 120 pounds)


Am I getting this right? The guys are calling back after they see that you lost weight?

If that's the case, there's no way on earth that I would go out with them again.


southern_bee's photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:39 AM
hey hun,you were the same person now as your were then loving and caring.and all they could see is the weight.now you have lost the weight and they want to ask you out?yeah id tell them to get hit by a bus.

Gossipmpm's photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:43 AM
No

It's their loss

I used to weigh close to 300 at one time

Now the men who wouldn't look at me want me!!??

No way. Jose!!!

Let em weep!!

LewisW123's photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:47 AM
Why wouldn't you?

You have worked hard to make yourself more attractive for a reason. Are those guys any less shallow than the ones that are attracted to you now?

Do you, yourself, look for a certain type of physical attraction, or do looks not matter at all to you?


earthytaurus76's photo
Mon 08/31/09 06:52 AM
nope.