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Topic: OMG I FEEL OLD!!!
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Sat 08/29/09 09:49 PM
I just had a young lady contact me through another site I have a profile through, and it turns out see is only 19!!!

my profile is an exact duplicate of the one on here, with the only difference being the title which includes my age; it reads: "34y/o Honest old-fashioned Christian father looking for companionship", so I know she knew my age lol. She quoted passages from the profile to include my intending on getting ordained as a deacon, so I know she read everything.

Now all you beautiful 19y/o's don't need to turn away with sighs of displeasure, I am not against an age difference lol, but she definitely wasn't looking for anything serious, and there was just way too much differences between us.

Anyone else ever have this happen?

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Sat 08/29/09 09:52 PM
yeah im 47 and all the womwn that contact me are 70+laugh laugh

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Sat 08/29/09 09:54 PM
gold-digger!lmao

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Sat 08/29/09 09:54 PM
Edited by Wolf19 on Sat 08/29/09 09:55 PM
on my boot leave, i went to the mall(just to see what would happen)in my dress blues b.I went to the food court and got some food,a few 15 or 16 (couldnt really tell, but i knew they were young) girls came up to me and start babbling alot of things i already heard before.One gave me her number,but i threw it away as soon as they left,i knew she was too young.But it was nice getting the attention for a whilehappy

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Sat 08/29/09 09:55 PM
Yep, every once in a while, I assume they are scammers until proven otherwise.

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Sat 08/29/09 09:56 PM
On the other site I'm on I used to have this guy from N.Y.C. email me all the time and want to meet that was only 22. From this site there is one that is 24 that contacts me occasionally. It's fine to email, but to think that I have a daughter their age. ohwell

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Sat 08/29/09 10:01 PM
thats mean to say she was a gold digger :/

but i can see how youd maybe think it was a scam...
idk..

alot of girls..including me..like older men because they can hold conversations!...unlike alot of the 19 year old men :/


my bf is 25...hes past the "drinking,partying,having sex with random girls" part of his life...and thats just what i want!

he has his **** together & knows what he wants out of life.

alot of young girls want that...and (no offense) wont find that with the majority of guys their age..so they look for older guys.

anyhoo...DONT FEEL OLD

take it as a compliment :)

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Sat 08/29/09 10:02 PM
hhmm is interesting how this happens...most girls this young are usually just looking for a good time anyway or go for a ride in Dadys BMW if you know what I mean. Is always nice to know that younger women still find you attractive though.

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Sat 08/29/09 10:02 PM
hey...feel flattered...you go stud :banana:

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Sat 08/29/09 10:04 PM

On the other site I'm on I used to have this guy from N.Y.C. email me all the time and want to meet that was only 22. From this site there is one that is 24 that contacts me occasionally. It's fine to email, but to think that I have a daughter their age. ohwell


There is no way you put your true age on your profile (yes I peeked at it :tongue:) I would not put you a day past 35 to look at your picture!

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Sat 08/29/09 10:06 PM

hhmm is interesting how this happens...most girls this young are usually just looking for a good time anyway or go for a ride in Dadys BMW if you know what I mean. Is always nice to know that younger women still find you attractive though.


AHAHA no...you have just had bad experienceslaugh laugh laugh

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Sat 08/29/09 10:06 PM

thats mean to say she was a gold digger :/

but i can see how youd maybe think it was a scam...
idk..

alot of girls..including me..like older men because they can hold conversations!...unlike alot of the 19 year old men :/


my bf is 25...hes past the "drinking,partying,having sex with random girls" part of his life...and thats just what i want!

he has his **** together & knows what he wants out of life.

alot of young girls want that...and (no offense) wont find that with the majority of guys their age..so they look for older guys.

anyhoo...DONT FEEL OLD So,....true I tend to think of it as a advantage to date either diecection being 40...I can date older or younger women...

take it as a compliment :)

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Sat 08/29/09 10:08 PM
Edited by daniel48706 on Sat 08/29/09 10:10 PM

thats mean to say she was a gold digger :/

but i can see how youd maybe think it was a scam...
idk..

alot of girls..including me..like older men because they can hold conversations!...unlike alot of the 19 year old men :/


my bf is 25...hes past the "drinking,partying,having sex with random girls" part of his life...and thats just what i want!

he has his **** together & knows what he wants out of life.

alot of young girls want that...and (no offense) wont find that with the majority of guys their age..so they look for older guys.

anyhoo...DONT FEEL OLD

take it as a compliment :)


Oh I wasnt worried about wether it was a scam or not, and I was definitely flattered, lol. And I know there are young ladies like yourself who look for an older man because of the very qualities that yo possess yuorself and are looking for. However, most 19 y/o's, wether male or female, do still like to party, and live carefree (which she was upfront about too). But it is because of ladies like yourself hun, that I made the comment about not all the beautiful young nineteen yearolds running away lol ;)

Ia m not above dating someone seriously younger, if they have grown past the immaturity of youth, and are looking for a serious relationship as well.

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Sat 08/29/09 10:13 PM
She was looking for her

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Sat 08/29/09 10:15 PM

On the other site I'm on I used to have this guy from N.Y.C. email me all the time and want to meet that was only 22. From this site there is one that is 24 that contacts me occasionally. It's fine to email, but to think that I have a daughter their age. ohwell



lol, I tried to email you, but it wouldn't let me due to being barely two years younger than you posted :-(

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Sat 08/29/09 10:17 PM


thats mean to say she was a gold digger :/

but i can see how youd maybe think it was a scam...
idk..

alot of girls..including me..like older men because they can hold conversations!...unlike alot of the 19 year old men :/


my bf is 25...hes past the "drinking,partying,having sex with random girls" part of his life...and thats just what i want!

he has his **** together & knows what he wants out of life.

alot of young girls want that...and (no offense) wont find that with the majority of guys their age..so they look for older guys.

anyhoo...DONT FEEL OLD

take it as a compliment :)


Oh I wasnt worried about wether it was a scam or not, and I was definitely flattered, lol. And I know there are young ladies like yourself who look for an older man because of the very qualities that yo possess yuorself and are looking for. However, most 19 y/o's, wether male or female, do still like to party, and live carefree (which she was upfront about too). But it is because of ladies like yourself hun, that I made the comment about not all the beautiful young nineteen yearolds running away lol ;)

Ia m not above dating someone seriously younger, if they have grown past the immaturity of youth, and are looking for a serious relationship as well.



yeah very true about alot of 19 year old males/females still being in the crazy party phase(nothing too wrong with that..until they start using people)

but atleast she was upfront with you and you didnt find out later on :)

and thats good that youre openminded :)

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Sat 08/29/09 10:19 PM


On the other site I'm on I used to have this guy from N.Y.C. email me all the time and want to meet that was only 22. From this site there is one that is 24 that contacts me occasionally. It's fine to email, but to think that I have a daughter their age. ohwell


There is no way you put your true age on your profile (yes I peeked at it :tongue:) I would not put you a day past 35 to look at your picture!



Why thank you. blushing flowerforyou It comes from living healthy, ie...eating healthy, working out, no drugs/smoking, rarely drinking, vitamins and such, moisturizers, and drinking lots of water. Although that is my pic from last year, I will have current pics up in a couple weeks.

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Sat 08/29/09 10:22 PM
Cat on this other site was worried about age difference too. Sounded like he wanted a green light to date younger. Maturity happens to be something that doesn't come with age. Do like you would do with anyother person, take it slow. Just realize that at some point your physical limitations may exceed hers.

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Sat 08/29/09 10:22 PM
Well if that pic is only a year old, then I am sure you are still just as beautiful this year as you were last year :-D If your willing to, please email me so I can email you back lol. I can not get past your filters unless you email me firstflowers







On the other site I'm on I used to have this guy from N.Y.C. email me all the time and want to meet that was only 22. From this site there is one that is 24 that contacts me occasionally. It's fine to email, but to think that I have a daughter their age. ohwell


There is no way you put your true age on your profile (yes I peeked at it :tongue:) I would not put you a day past 35 to look at your picture!



Why thank you. blushing flowerforyou It comes from living healthy, ie...eating healthy, working out, no drugs/smoking, rarely drinking, vitamins and such, moisturizers, and drinking lots of water. Although that is my pic from last year, I will have current pics up in a couple weeks.

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Sun 08/30/09 12:54 AM
I don't have that problem; I put filters on my email settings.:tongue:

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