Probably just looking in the wrong places. I think you're beautiful! :)

You are absolutely right. The older we get the harder for us to find the person we like. Women should marry early in my opinion, better before you are 30. Do not wait till you are 40. After that you will hardly be able to marry at all.

I'm older than you and I've found someone I like, so your age is irrelevant.

So the 2nd, 3rd, and 4th marriages are all a figment of our collective imaginations?

i dont think its really harder,but it changes things for sure.

Your post pisses me off. By what authority are you saying that 1) Marriage over 40 is impossible? 2) That marriage is the be all, end all for women? Of, course I'll be politically correct and say that you're entitled to your opinion, blah, blah, blah, but I find your post to be somewhat offensive.

Personally I do not think that you're age has anything to do with it. I believe that no matter how bad it gets, there is more than likely someone out there that you find appealing and vice versa. Do not rush into anything, as people have found that they can find happiness in later life. My dad walked out on my mum @ 40, took stock of life, and by the time 5 years had passed, he'd found someone else he connected with, (ok so he's now remarried and has been for 7 years). This goes to show that age is just a number and how people are perceived is what stops them being themselves. Be yourself, and the possibilities are endless.

Oh please 34 is not old. You just need to get out there and get noticed.

I am 46 and have recently found someone I like,,,and I found him here on mingle 2

I doubt it has to do with age either. Meeting people takes eye-contact. And being engageing. You mention liking to chat in your profile and do neither of the previous so maybe you are more closed than you think.

As a pretty woman that can be annoying when it gets you more attention than you want from the general population but it also makes you invisable from the nice guys who may assume that you have someone because you put out that "this store is closed" vibe?

Successful dateing is being open on various venues that give you opportunity to put together with preparation. IE People meet at the grocery store all the time but not when we go shopping tired, grumpy, totally absorbed in what you are doing in your sweats. lol

Welcome to Mingle. There are also a lot of people your age they just are on line at various times and some just watch the forums. Participateing does get your profile seen much more so it is worth it to participate in the ones that appeal to you.

im 36 and seem to be having the same problem!!

It's hard for everyone...do like I did and start burying prospective partners under your stoop...

Isn't it getting kinda full down there by now?

Easy for you to say. Some of us are stoopless....

Still have plenty of room, especially since I cleaned it out yesterday...blankets were old and dirty...



You can build one...I'm just lucky the house I live in came with a rather big one...fits about 40 people if I stack them high...

You can always stuff them into the walls. I've heard that works too. Except for the smell.........

Febreze...erhm, not that I'd know...just a guess...

I think a dumpster with attached conveyor belt might be more practical.

Then I'd have to move the tarantulas.

Your straight and struggling??god help me i have no chance!! Anna x