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Topic: what if..
jezimari Joined Mon 07/20/09 Posts: 98	Thu 08/27/09 08:12 PM
what if he doesnt have time for you, does he really care about you?

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 08/27/09 08:13 PM
No. Men will do exactly what they have to do, whatever it is.... to be near or with the one they want to be with. Move states, countries, jobs, lives...... no time = no interest.

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 08/27/09 08:14 PM
what if he doesnt have time for you, does he really care about you? geeze i know exactly how that feels if he doesnt have time for you or his own self then he not worth the effort, your best bet is look else where

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Thu 08/27/09 08:14 PM
If he wants to be with you he'll find the time...and plenty of it.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 08/27/09 08:14 PM
No. Men will do exactly what they have to do, whatever it is.... to be near or with the one they want to be with. Move states, countries, jobs, lives...... no time = no interest. yup!!!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 08/27/09 08:15 PM
Teach him a lesson & Marry him

Dollyllama Joined Thu 08/27/09 Posts: 19	Thu 08/27/09 08:16 PM
Sorry sweetie, but the answer is an emphatic... NO! If a person cares for you, or is "into" you, they will do everything within their power to make time, they won't be able to help themselves for you will be on their mind constantly.

jezimari Joined Mon 07/20/09 Posts: 98	Thu 08/27/09 08:16 PM
No. Men will do exactly what they have to do, whatever it is.... to be near or with the one they want to be with. Move states, countries, jobs, lives...... no time = no interest. what if works a lot.. still no time..means, hes not really care about you?

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 08/27/09 08:16 PM
I guess it depends on how much time he doesn't have for you. Sometimes a guy needs "man time" and of course there's work.

jezimari Joined Mon 07/20/09 Posts: 98	Thu 08/27/09 08:17 PM
Sorry sweetie, but the answer is an emphatic... NO! If a person cares for you, or is "into" you, they will do everything within their power to make time, they won't be able to help themselves for you will be on their mind constantly. yah

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 08/27/09 08:17 PM
No. Men will do exactly what they have to do, whatever it is.... to be near or with the one they want to be with. Move states, countries, jobs, lives...... no time = no interest. I find this hard to believe.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Thu 08/27/09 08:18 PM
hummm ive had that before it means u were fooled into friends with benifits.... even if there are other things said.. facts are actions do show more than words... but words do mean something if they are shown with actions.... i hope that makes sense to you... best of luck.. time to move on though..deb

jezimari Joined Mon 07/20/09 Posts: 98	Thu 08/27/09 08:19 PM
If he wants to be with you he'll find the time...and plenty of it. i know, he will find a way just to be with you..

jezimari Joined Mon 07/20/09 Posts: 98	Thu 08/27/09 08:20 PM
hummm ive had that before it means u were fooled into friends with benifits.... even if there are other things said.. facts are actions do show more than words... but words do mean something if they are shown with actions.... i hope that makes sense to you... best of luck.. time to move on though..deb i guess im in the situation that friends with benefits then.. ohhh

jezimari Joined Mon 07/20/09 Posts: 98	Thu 08/27/09 08:22 PM
thanks for the response..now il make a hard decision to make..

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 08/27/09 08:23 PM
Nothing hard to believe about it..... you can fluff it up in pretty ribbons....but if a man wants to be with his girl...he'll quit a job, to spend more time with her...

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Thu 08/27/09 08:24 PM
Nothing hard to believe about it..... you can fluff it up in pretty ribbons....but if a man wants to be with his girl...he'll quit a job, to spend more time with her... I would never ask nor want a man to quit his job for me.

jezimari Joined Mon 07/20/09 Posts: 98	Thu 08/27/09 08:24 PM
Nothing hard to believe about it..... you can fluff it up in pretty ribbons....but if a man wants to be with his girl...he'll quit a job, to spend more time with her... well maybe im not in his priority over his job thats why..

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 08/27/09 08:28 PM
I have....and lost. I have....and won. Same man different time in our lives. His priorities changed, and his profession came first.. then his profession wasn't what he required for fulfillment...he realised we had both lost.

alonenotlonely Joined Thu 01/03/08 Posts: 2957	Thu 08/27/09 08:30 PM
No. Men will do exactly what they have to do, whatever it is.... to be near or with the one they want to be with. Move states, countries, jobs, lives...... no time = no interest. yup!!! Amen!