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can't miss! have a wonderful time!
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Cheers & Best of luck to you both
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you'll never know if your pal was lying or not until you try it.
he will either ... A. run screaming and think you're a hussy B. fall head over heels with you and try to replace his now MIA wife C. make you the rebound girl. YAY! good luck :D |
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you'll never know if your pal was lying or not until you try it. he will either ... A. run screaming and think you're a hussy B. fall head over heels with you and try to replace his now MIA wife C. make you the rebound girl. YAY! good luck :D I'm guessing this is going to turn into a C. situation, but I don't mind. He's ****ing hot, and I'm not looking for love. |
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*shrugs* I'm Personally a Diehard Romantic so F**K ya'll I Say D) Lives Happily ever after!
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you'll never know if your pal was lying or not until you try it. he will either ... A. run screaming and think you're a hussy B. fall head over heels with you and try to replace his now MIA wife C. make you the rebound girl. YAY! good luck :D I'm guessing this is going to turn into a C. situation, but I don't mind. He's ****ing hot, and I'm not looking for love. Hmmm......than why this post  , just tell it like it is to him.....
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you'll never know if your pal was lying or not until you try it. he will either ... A. run screaming and think you're a hussy B. fall head over heels with you and try to replace his now MIA wife C. make you the rebound girl. YAY! good luck :D I'm guessing this is going to turn into a C. situation, but I don't mind. He's ****ing hot, and I'm not looking for love. Hmmm......than why this post , just tell it like it is to him..... Because nobody likes being rejected! I don't want to come off too strong. |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Thu 08/27/09 01:26 AM
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I'm guessing this is going to turn into a C. situation, but I don't mind. He's ****ing hot, and I'm not looking for love. better tell him this too.... he should know if you just want to play. |
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I'm guessing this is going to turn into a C. situation, but I don't mind. He's ****ing hot, and I'm not looking for love. better tell him this too.... he should know if you just want to play. I agree |
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I'm guessing this is going to turn into a C. situation, but I don't mind. He's ****ing hot, and I'm not looking for love. better tell him this too.... he should know if you just want to play. Well I don't think he's looking for a relationship either... I mean, fresh into Legal Separation, I don't think I'd be ready for a commitment. |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Thu 08/27/09 01:43 AM
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I'm guessing this is going to turn into a C. situation, but I don't mind. He's ****ing hot, and I'm not looking for love. better tell him this too.... he should know if you just want to play. Well I don't think he's looking for a relationship either... I mean, fresh into Legal Separation, I don't think I'd be ready for a commitment. you cannot make that assumption. if you tell him you are interested in him then you need to tell him if you are not looking for love! you need to be honest with yourself on this point as well. you would not want someone to tell you that they were interested in you and found you attractive only to find out after you've started sleeping with them that they were only in it for a fun roll in the hay and that they didn't think you were interested in a relationship because you had just broken up with your ex... know what i mean?  just be clear about how you really feel about him (and you). |
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lol got 4 rules for you, I live by em & they work.
1) Golden rule- Treat others as you would be treated in turn 2) Honesty is the best policy 3) Live each Day to the fullest 4) if in doubt see rule 1 |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Thu 08/27/09 02:04 AM
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on the other hand, if you are ready to consider him and his kids as a potential new family then seriously consider it! it works out sometimes yanno....
it can still be a LOT of fun. but there are others to consider in this equation. |
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What's your opinion on it? Funny how it sounds strange to some in the USA. I came back from Europe a few days ago and it's sort of normal, that women also make the first moves, just as many times as men. |
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Freshly separated AND you work with him!! Gee, can't see where anything could go wrong here!
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"Mature men" wait until their divorce is final.......................
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Freshly separated AND you work with him!! Gee, can't see where anything could go wrong here! I was thinking the same thing. From what I've read, it sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. You don't want a relationhip, but he's hot and he's interested in you. Of course he's interested in you. His home-life is miserable and he needs a distraction. How about the young hot cutie at the office? He's either going to use you (which may be O.K. for you, from the sounds of it) or he's going to fall for you and you're going to have to break his heart when you dump him. Or you're going to fall for him and then he's going to break your heart when he moves on to the next. Or maybe you can just use each other and then when you are both equally disinterested in each other, at the same time, you can part as friends and live happily ever after, both on to new "love" interests. If you want a relationship, wait until the divorce is over and find out if he is a stable person after he goes thru hell. If not, then just sleep with him, but don't expect it to end well. It usually doesn't. |
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Freshly separated AND you work with him!! Gee, can't see where anything could go wrong here! I was thinking the same thing. From what I've read, it sounds like a disaster waiting to happen. You don't want a relationhip, but he's hot and he's interested in you. Of course he's interested in you. His home-life is miserable and he needs a distraction. How about the young hot cutie at the office? He's either going to use you (which may be O.K. for you, from the sounds of it) or he's going to fall for you and you're going to have to break his heart when you dump him. Or you're going to fall for him and then he's going to break your heart when he moves on to the next. Or maybe you can just use each other and then when you are both equally disinterested in each other, at the same time, you can part as friends and live happily ever after, both on to new "love" interests. If you want a relationship, wait until the divorce is over and find out if he is a stable person after he goes thru hell. If not, then just sleep with him, but don't expect it to end well. It usually doesn't. I was thinking more along the lines of the jealous wife showing up at the office. Or the higher ups at the office finding out and put your moral character in question.....if you persue this, I would make alternate employment arrangements. |
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"....and am extremely attracted to him and his level of maturity." Your opinions? Get real close, look into his eyes and....tell him just that. |
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In general, its fine for a woman to make the 'first move' Do take into consideration that this man maybe going to ride an emotional roller coaster with his divorce. Don't forget kids add to the up's and down's of a divorce. If you want to be his friend, sure. If you are looking for more, be wary. Not just for your sake, but his too. Good advice. |
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