Ok so i am on two dating sites, this one has produced one jerk who was a complete a$$ and the other well...i have the good, the bad, and the ugly. But mainly the really bad and ugly. I mainly use this site to mingle and meet new people.

I am sure a lot of girls have this issue and if not, i am suprised. Why do so many men, contact me and the second i respond they start the conversation with sex? And why is their first question do you masterbate? Or do you like phone sex? Of course any respectable man wouldn't do those things, but you have to wonder what in the world those guys are thinking? I ignore people like that. But that makes 5 guys in one day. It gets old and annoying. I havent had any minglers like that yet, thank God!

I am just ranting and am i allowed to say those phrases in the forums, guess i will find out.

Oh and for future guys who think this behavior is acceptable, i personally dont want to be used just so you splatter your knuckle babies all over your computer screen. Please grow a brain and learn some respect.

Just stay on Mingle, leave the other site....it sounds bad!!

LOL, maybe you should try meeting decent guys in other places besides dating sites? I think they do that because they know there's no chance of them being slapped- or worse. I don't know about you, but I have yet to encounter a guy in the real world who wanted to know how big my boobs are...

Not all man are like this. I'm sorry that you had to find the ones that act all crazy.

Lucky you...They just stare and I actually want them to ask...it gets kinda creepy

I think I'd laugh my a$$ off if a man from West Virginia had the nerve to ask my bra size.

Ya'll are just crazy.. in a good way..

I had never heard that expression before.

i had a idiot last yr or the year before that had broken english as he had ask me what i did for a living and i told him i was a singer... he actually fell for it...

I'm thinking the men saying this stuff aren't men from the forums... I have found that usually men in the forums are more serious about either just chatting and making friends or getting to know people and being more interested in a woman and who she is...

I've not had any rude emails in I can't even remember how long it's been and my im's are turned off.. I don't give out my personal im unless I really want to chat with someone which is very rare or to a friend I've made here...

I have met a few good ones from the other. Its just the crazies out weight the sane guys. Oh yeah and i forgot the classic lines of, hi, how are you? With the response of Im horny. Really now seriously? I am too but cant i get to know you and maybe learn your name birthdate and social security number before we jump on that band wagon?

as soon as one guy tells me he horny.. hes history..

ah they are everywhere but i get less of them in stealth.

that place sounds more like a yahoo chat room than a dating site. before i moved here, i used to visit the michigan ones and you'd ask them for a pic, and instead of their face, you got the "extra special pic." i'm guessing they did it either for shock value or because they really thought i was interested in seeing their teeny tiny junk. at any rate, i asked them if they would mind me slicing it off with my rusty blade and feeding it to my hungry pit bull. for some reason, that really freaked them out....

OMG

Ohhhh I do stealth now too...

What is stealth?

there wasn't much else to do with them, if you know what i mean.

you can go into settings and change it to stealth mode so no one can see when you're online.

Other people cant see when your online