Here, let me explain it to you. You finish where you put yourself, the reason most nice guys finish last is because halfway through the race they stop to complain about the bad guys cheating and getting ahead...then the bad guys win, because the nice guys spent the entire race complaining...see where this is going? Quit complaining and do something about it...

...correct. Take action. For every action, there's a reaction. Simple 8th grade physics that it seems so many people missed that day. Must have been right around the time of frog dissecting.

you have no clue what you just did.....

Or everyone was blazing weedies, chomping disco biscuits, and honking wiffle dust that day.

It's not a race. There's no finish line. It's just life. Just live it. Enjoy it. Everything will happen when it's supposed to.

Real nice guys ride harleys, served their countries, help others and work with charities. NOT nice guys live with their parents at 40, whine about not getting laid. And whine about being a self proclaimed "Nice Guy". Simple. Self proclaimation is an interesting thing. I'm longhairbiker and that's pretty close to the fact. Claiming to be one sexy jerk or one really nice guy leaves it open to visceral discussion under the circumstances being that the subject has been talked into the ground. Don't brand yourself something that you're not. You will put yourself in a bad light from the beginning and noone will take you seriously.

Well, it really was just an example. No one gets anywhere if they are always complaining, regardless...well, you get somewhere but it is rarely anywhere you actually want to go.

I think it's nice when the guy lets me finish first

You'll have to fight for that position.

Sorry, Fear, I wasn't arguing with you. I agree with everything you said. I was just talking to the OP and I should have quoted him.

I said "quit complaining" too. Just differently then you did.

I'm not worried about it

Miscommunication.

Well, you are Irish...little to be worried about.

Nice guys have no balls...

AMAZING men have confidence, assertion, and a strong self esteem.

I don't understand the question??

" Nice guys finish last"
Because it is great to let her finish first...then I will finish.
or better yet.. finish at the same time

i dont agree with this

real nice guys have everything they need to be with the girl they want.

pl tell me all the time that im nice but that dosnt make me a doormat, i stand up for myself and take crap from no one

but i do agree with some of the other posts girls already have a p***y and they dont need another one.

well said

ty