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Topic: Why Is It So Hard To Love?
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:47 PM


:heart: Why is it so hard to love after being hurt so many times?:heart:

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:48 PM
It's not :smile: :heart:

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Tue 08/25/09 06:48 PM
I think because we don't give ourselves time to heal properly. We become angry and bitter, and that effects all of the following relationships.

Jeff0828's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:51 PM

I think because we don't give ourselves time to heal properly. We become angry and bitter, and that effects all of the following relationships.


I agree. We need to forgive so that we can heal. It doesn't mean we agree with what they did to us. That way we can make sure that we don't take extra baggage in to the next relationship. IMHO

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:52 PM

It's not :smile: :heart:
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:52 PM

I think because we don't give ourselves time to heal properly. We become angry and bitter, and that effects all of the following relationships.
flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:53 PM
Because a part of you eventually dies and once it does you're not capable of falling in love again.

AngelFireDream's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:53 PM



:heart: Why is it so hard to love after being hurt so many times?:heart:

Its not, but it may be harder to trust. Harder to feel safe.

Krunking's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:53 PM
because you are a monkey...

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:54 PM


I think because we don't give ourselves time to heal properly. We become angry and bitter, and that effects all of the following relationships.


I agree. We need to forgive so that we can heal. It doesn't mean we agree with what they did to us. That way we can make sure that we don't take extra baggage in to the next relationship. IMHO
:thumbsup:

silly's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:56 PM
Because of being hurt again.Like I am now.How I'm so sorry i put myself out there again.It hurts so bad.Never,never again.noway mad :angry: tears

writer_gurl's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:58 PM
Awwwww, Mirror, you are love ed

AngelFireDream's photo
Tue 08/25/09 06:59 PM

Because of being hurt again.Like I am now.How I'm so sorry i put myself out there again.It hurts so bad.Never,never again.noway mad :angry: tears

flowers

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Tue 08/25/09 07:02 PM

Because of being hurt again.Like I am now.How I'm so sorry i put myself out there again.It hurts so bad.Never,never again.noway mad :angry: tears


Oh honey, of course it hurts, but that is no reason to feel regret. You were brave enough to get back out there, and that is something that you should be proud of. flowerforyou Not all relationships work, they are not suppose to. Some cause a lot of pain, but this is a part of the process of getting where you need to be. It is a journey, just like life, and it is the moments that matter, not the end result. I wish you peace. :smile:

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 07:04 PM

Because a part of you eventually dies and once it does you're not capable of falling in love again.
flowerforyou

grneyedldy1967's photo
Tue 08/25/09 07:08 PM

because you are a monkey...


But he is such a cute monkey! I want to pet him and feed him peanuts! :tongue:

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 07:13 PM




:heart: Why is it so hard to love after being hurt so many times?:heart:

Its not, but it may be harder to trust. Harder to feel safe.
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 07:14 PM

because you are a monkey...
:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/25/09 07:15 PM

Because of being hurt again.Like I am now.How I'm so sorry i put myself out there again.It hurts so bad.Never,never again.noway mad :angry: tears
flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 08/25/09 07:16 PM
its a natural, and nessasary defense. Hopefully we get past it and learn while were abstaining, and then able to love openly again.

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