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| Topic: Did you realize that being single is good? | |
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cunnilingus? cuttlefish??? what's a cuttlefish have to do with this conversation??? ohhhhhh...nevermind... |
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. "rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort" that? is beautiful......... but to the rest of what you said........dude....you just want sex....you dont want a relationship, but guess what?? sex is easier in a relationship....it is safer...it just "feels" right...bc you know she is just with you.... but come on....dont tell me you are "missing" that false sense of comfort....so which one is worth more? thanks for telling me what i want  false. such a jaded outlook. i love the feeling of a girl. whether we are having sex or not, feeling connected with someone else is amazing. perhaps your theory holds true for the majority of the disenfranchised minglers (and mods) whom convince themselves that they no longer want to try and become emotionally involved with another. and this can be for any reason- got burnt 1 too many times, poor self-image, laziness ,etc etc etc. all im saying is that there will always be people like me; people who havent given up on love. nothing worth while ever comes easily, right? |
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see women are different... ya'll r just as "emotional" as we are...we show it differently...yes... but when it comes to sex.......its different men? we like to have sex bc it makes us feel...like men women? you have sex bc you wanna cuddle *edited* and that is a massive generalization..........i know im not right....there are some ladies who just love sex, i get it I love just sex, but when it comes to being in a relationship cuddling should happen at least 1/3 of everytime the couple has sex. |
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. I can only go from personal experience, but, in the end, it's just not worth it. The bad parts of the relationship outweigh the good by such an astronomical ratio that it's just senseless for me to try to pursue the issue anymore. Yes, those brief interludes -- the "good" times -- can be a lot of fun, and very meaningful. But, knowing that either sheer boredom or a massive domestication attempt is just around the corner, why would I want to continue to subject myself to that? |
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Edited by
galendgirl
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Tue 08/25/09 06:58 AM
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A year is nothing...try 3   (Amateur!) Try most of a lifetime...  Seriously - being single has its perks. Being in a relationship has its perks. You've got to make the best of whatever you've got. |
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. "rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort" that? is beautiful......... but to the rest of what you said........dude....you just want sex....you dont want a relationship, but guess what?? sex is easier in a relationship....it is safer...it just "feels" right...bc you know she is just with you.... but come on....dont tell me you are "missing" that false sense of comfort....so which one is worth more? thanks for telling me what i want false. such a jaded outlook. i love the feeling of a girl. whether we are having sex or not, feeling connected with someone else is amazing. perhaps your theory holds true for the majority of the disenfranchised minglers (and mods) whom convince themselves that they no longer want to try and become emotionally involved with another. and this can be for any reason- got burnt 1 too many times, poor self-image, laziness ,etc etc etc. all im saying is that there will always be people like me; people who havent given up on love. nothing worth while ever comes easily, right? I understand where your coming from. Love for me is still out there. Good luck in your search for love. 
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. A year is nothing...try 3 ummm hello try 9 yrs!!! WTF? |
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. I can only go from personal experience, but, in the end, it's just not worth it. The bad parts of the relationship outweigh the good by such an astronomical ratio that it's just senseless for me to try to pursue the issue anymore. Yes, those brief interludes -- the "good" times -- can be a lot of fun, and very meaningful. But, knowing that either sheer boredom or a massive domestication attempt is just around the corner, why would I want to continue to subject myself to that? to each his/her own, right? we're all special. we are all... snowflakes. |
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. "rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort" that? is beautiful......... but to the rest of what you said........dude....you just want sex....you dont want a relationship, but guess what?? sex is easier in a relationship....it is safer...it just "feels" right...bc you know she is just with you.... but come on....dont tell me you are "missing" that false sense of comfort....so which one is worth more? thanks for telling me what i want false. such a jaded outlook. i love the feeling of a girl. whether we are having sex or not, feeling connected with someone else is amazing. perhaps your theory holds true for the majority of the disenfranchised minglers (and mods) whom convince themselves that they no longer want to try and become emotionally involved with another. and this can be for any reason- got burnt 1 too many times, poor self-image, laziness ,etc etc etc. all im saying is that there will always be people like me; people who havent given up on love. nothing worth while ever comes easily, right? I didnt tell you what you wanted, I told you what you were making yourself look like |
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and seriously, if you have a daughter in her early 20's, post pics. lol.
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and i doubt any of us have given up on love...
if you want love so bad, then go find it |
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and i doubt any of us have given up on love... if you want love so bad, then go find it ha. alrighty then. lemme just go up to walmart and get myself a love-dar. gimme a break. |
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a what?
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wish i was 22 again
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. I can only go from personal experience, but, in the end, it's just not worth it. The bad parts of the relationship outweigh the good by such an astronomical ratio that it's just senseless for me to try to pursue the issue anymore. Yes, those brief interludes -- the "good" times -- can be a lot of fun, and very meaningful. But, knowing that either sheer boredom or a massive domestication attempt is just around the corner, why would I want to continue to subject myself to that? to each his/her own, right? we're all special. we are all... snowflakes. That sounds like an insulting matter-of-fact compliment...what an oxymoron lol 
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rather than rationalizing a false sense of comfort, i will admit that i would rather be in a relationship. being single is cool at first, but after almost a year without being able to give myself to someone, it gets old. I can only go from personal experience, but, in the end, it's just not worth it. The bad parts of the relationship outweigh the good by such an astronomical ratio that it's just senseless for me to try to pursue the issue anymore. Yes, those brief interludes -- the "good" times -- can be a lot of fun, and very meaningful. But, knowing that either sheer boredom or a massive domestication attempt is just around the corner, why would I want to continue to subject myself to that? to each his/her own, right? we're all special. we are all... snowflakes. That sounds like an insulting matter-of-fact compliment...what an oxymoron lol what r u talkin about? i wanna like it |
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wish i was 22 again  oh no not me, i never want to be 20 anything anymore!!!
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i wanna be a snowflake
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bob is a name for a vibrator, isnt it?
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i wanna be a snowflake snowflakes rawk. especially when you get a lot of em together and then snowboard on top of em. |
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