Topic: Any good men out there?
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Tue 08/25/09 12:14 AM


hmm i am not looking for a relationship just friendship that i am a good listener if you do something wrong i wont beat around the bush about it i will tell what you did wrong and why i think it is wrong i care for my friends like i care for my mom, brother and sister and nieces. if you are my friend you are part of my family




I think you should beat around the bush.


Just try it.


They like it.




i know nice guys finish last that is why i will always be last

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Tue 08/25/09 12:14 AM

1st i am just seperated i am not divorced yet
2nd i fell that to have a good relationship you must be friends first or it is only about sex and that will die
3rd i am out of work and in school so dont have time for the complications of a relationship
Good reasons!!!bigsmile drinker

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Tue 08/25/09 12:15 AM


1st i am just seperated i am not divorced yet
2nd i fell that to have a good relationship you must be friends first or it is only about sex and that will die
3rd i am out of work and in school so dont have time for the complications of a relationship
Good reasons!!!bigsmile drinker

thank you flowers

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Tue 08/25/09 12:15 AM
Ohhhhhhhhh we can work on that being an a hole thing........chicks dig it!!slaphead

NOT!!!slaphead

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Tue 08/25/09 12:16 AM



hmm i am not looking for a relationship just friendship that i am a good listener if you do something wrong i wont beat around the bush about it i will tell what you did wrong and why i think it is wrong i care for my friends like i care for my mom, brother and sister and nieces. if you are my friend you are part of my family




I think you should beat around the bush.


Just try it.


They like it.




i know nice guys finish last that is why i will always be last


so become a prick, we like them:wink:

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Tue 08/25/09 12:17 AM



hmm i am not looking for a relationship just friendship that i am a good listener if you do something wrong i wont beat around the bush about it i will tell what you did wrong and why i think it is wrong i care for my friends like i care for my mom, brother and sister and nieces. if you are my friend you are part of my family




I think you should beat around the bush.


Just try it.


They like it.




i know nice guys finish last that is why i will always be last





Dude- that isn't true at all.


I feel like I am a very nice guy and I haven't ALWAYS finished in last.
You get what you put into it.

No woman likes a whiny biatch. So any dude that plays "nice guys finish last, boohoo for me," card is GOING TO FINISH LAST>

Don't let yourself finish last. Go get what you want.

I don't know. I'm single too, I'm no casanova, but I don't feel there is any reason you can't have what you want in life.

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Tue 08/25/09 12:18 AM




hmm i am not looking for a relationship just friendship that i am a good listener if you do something wrong i wont beat around the bush about it i will tell what you did wrong and why i think it is wrong i care for my friends like i care for my mom, brother and sister and nieces. if you are my friend you are part of my family




I think you should beat around the bush.


Just try it.


They like it.




i know nice guys finish last that is why i will always be last





Dude- that isn't true at all.


I feel like I am a very nice guy and I haven't ALWAYS finished in last.
You get what you put into it.

No woman likes a whiny biatch. So any dude that plays "nice guys finish last, boohoo for me," card is GOING TO FINISH LAST>

Don't let yourself finish last. Go get what you want.

I don't know. I'm single too, I'm no casanova, but I don't feel there is any reason you can't have what you want in life.
bigsmile drinker flowerforyou

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Tue 08/25/09 12:20 AM





hmm i am not looking for a relationship just friendship that i am a good listener if you do something wrong i wont beat around the bush about it i will tell what you did wrong and why i think it is wrong i care for my friends like i care for my mom, brother and sister and nieces. if you are my friend you are part of my family




I think you should beat around the bush.


Just try it.


They like it.




i know nice guys finish last that is why i will always be last





Dude- that isn't true at all.


I feel like I am a very nice guy and I haven't ALWAYS finished in last.
You get what you put into it.

No woman likes a whiny biatch. So any dude that plays "nice guys finish last, boohoo for me," card is GOING TO FINISH LAST>

Don't let yourself finish last. Go get what you want.

I don't know. I'm single too, I'm no casanova, but I don't feel there is any reason you can't have what you want in life.
bigsmile drinker flowerforyou






That's why I'm going after Gypsy. F' it. I will probably fail. But what does it hurt to try?

Right Gypsy? flowerforyou

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Tue 08/25/09 12:22 AM
was not a boo hoo i am choicing to be single right now and i am happy nough said

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Tue 08/25/09 12:22 AM






hmm i am not looking for a relationship just friendship that i am a good listener if you do something wrong i wont beat around the bush about it i will tell what you did wrong and why i think it is wrong i care for my friends like i care for my mom, brother and sister and nieces. if you are my friend you are part of my family




I think you should beat around the bush.


Just try it.


They like it.




i know nice guys finish last that is why i will always be last





Dude- that isn't true at all.


I feel like I am a very nice guy and I haven't ALWAYS finished in last.
You get what you put into it.

No woman likes a whiny biatch. So any dude that plays "nice guys finish last, boohoo for me," card is GOING TO FINISH LAST>

Don't let yourself finish last. Go get what you want.

I don't know. I'm single too, I'm no casanova, but I don't feel there is any reason you can't have what you want in life.
bigsmile drinker flowerforyou






That's why I'm going after Gypsy. F' it. I will probably fail. But what does it hurt to try?

Right Gypsy? flowerforyou
You cant win if you dont play!!bigsmile :banana:

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Tue 08/25/09 12:23 AM

1st i am just seperated i am not divorced yet
2nd i fell that to have a good relationship you must be friends first or it is only about sex and that will die
3rd i am out of work and in school so dont have time for the complications of a relationship



I do not understand all this seperation stuff. It took me 90 days flat to get a divorce in AZ. I think someone gets a divorce or not.
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Tue 08/25/09 12:25 AM

was not a boo hoo i am choicing to be single right now and i am happy nough said




Well thats good. I just meant in general really.


Too many dudes play that nice guy bullcrap card.

Defeated attitude.


The best team on the field in a sporting event doesn't always win- sometimes they are outmatched and outplayed by smaller, weaker opponents.

There are way too many guys better looking than me- richer than me- so if I am working the same girl they are- I outsmart them, outplay them.

That's my approach.

And what i'm trying to do with Gypsy.

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Tue 08/25/09 12:25 AM

was not a boo hoo i am choicing to be single right now and i am happy nough said


just a tip, if you tell anyone on mingle that you're happy single, they won't believe you. just sayin'

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Tue 08/25/09 12:27 AM


was not a boo hoo i am choicing to be single right now and i am happy nough said




Well thats good. I just meant in general really.


Too many dudes play that nice guy bullcrap card.

Defeated attitude.


The best team on the field in a sporting event doesn't always win- sometimes they are outmatched and outplayed by smaller, weaker opponents.

There are way too many guys better looking than me- richer than me- so if I am working the same girl they are- I outsmart them, outplay them.

That's my approach.

And what i'm trying to do with Gypsy.
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Tue 08/25/09 12:27 AM
I'm happy single.

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Tue 08/25/09 12:28 AM



was not a boo hoo i am choicing to be single right now and i am happy nough said




Well thats good. I just meant in general really.


Too many dudes play that nice guy bullcrap card.

Defeated attitude.


The best team on the field in a sporting event doesn't always win- sometimes they are outmatched and outplayed by smaller, weaker opponents.

There are way too many guys better looking than me- richer than me- so if I am working the same girl they are- I outsmart them, outplay them.

That's my approach.

And what i'm trying to do with Gypsy.
rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


awwww, don't you want a little boy?:wink:

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Tue 08/25/09 12:29 AM

I'm happy single.


um, okay?

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Tue 08/25/09 12:30 AM
well you can believe me or not i am happy i know what i want and right now it does not include a relationship to get what i want i need to stay focused and i am trying i am going to school full time 4 days a week plus out job hunting or adjusting my resume and cover letters for jobs that require them sent via email i like mingle because i have made friends here and alot of people know me i been around since jsh so when i say i am happy single you can believe me
does that mean i dont want sex no but i know that will just cause problems for me now cause i cant sleep with anyone i dont have feelings for well enough with this post it is getting to long

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Tue 08/25/09 12:30 AM


I'm happy single.


um, okay?




I was just stating I am with you both. It's good to be happy single.


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Tue 08/25/09 12:32 AM

well you can believe me or not i am happy i know what i want and right now it does not include a relationship to get what i want i need to stay focused and i am trying i am going to school full time 4 days a week plus out job hunting or adjusting my resume and cover letters for jobs that require them sent via email i like mingle because i have made friends here and alot of people know me i been around since jsh so when i say i am happy single you can believe me
does that mean i dont want sex no but i know that will just cause problems for me now cause i cant sleep with anyone i dont have feelings for well enough with this post it is getting to long


Oh, I believe you, I'm just saying that the average person on mingle won't. Because they think you need another person to be happy. To complete you. It's rather funny. But I totally believe you.