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Topic: Really?
msmyka's photo
Sun 08/23/09 08:49 PM
So my ex just shows up unannounced explode

I prefer ignoring him/ not initiating contact over telling him to **** OFF... I just don't see the need to expend so much energy on hate.

What would you do to get your point across in this situation with out being a total b*tch?

coz1976's photo
Sun 08/23/09 08:51 PM
so i take he thinks ya'll are friends and your nothuh flowerforyou

alonenotlonely's photo
Sun 08/23/09 08:52 PM

So my ex just shows up unannounced explode

I prefer ignoring him/ not initiating contact over telling him to **** OFF... I just don't see the need to expend so much energy on hate.

What would you do to get your point across in this situation with out being a total b*tch?


Be a *****. It'll be his version of the story anyway!

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/23/09 08:54 PM


So my ex just shows up unannounced explode

I prefer ignoring him/ not initiating contact over telling him to **** OFF... I just don't see the need to expend so much energy on hate.

What would you do to get your point across in this situation with out being a total b*tch?


Be a *****. It'll be his version of the story anyway!


You are 100% correct!

RoamingOrator's photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:02 PM
He's the ex, why are you even being considerate at all? That's why he's an ex, so you don't have to put up with him anymore. Be the hard core B1tch you've always wanted to be.

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:05 PM
when my mom has to be around my dad she pretends that he doesnt exist. wont look at him, wont acknowledge him

if he talks to her she pretends not to hear him

it frustrates the hell out of him and later she giggles over how mad it makes him

oh and they were divorced twenty years ago

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:07 PM
I am not being considerate of him at all, its MY not wanting to let myself get worked up and angry over his sorry a$$.

andreajayne's photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:09 PM
I finally had to tell my exhusband and his now wife to leave me the eff alone or I was going to file harassment charges against them... I have been free from them for over a year now! Well, with the exception of one email from her, where for the first time she was nice to me... then again they needed something from me!

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Sun 08/23/09 09:11 PM

when my mom has to be around my dad she pretends that he doesnt exist. wont look at him, wont acknowledge him

if he talks to her she pretends not to hear him

it frustrates the hell out of him and later she giggles over how mad it makes him

oh and they were divorced twenty years ago



That's what I do...just pretty much have the attitude that he doesn't exist. I prefer not to waste time or energy on anything that has to do with him, just focus on MY own life and future, and things that matter in a positive way. Also, like I told him years ago, that's the beauty of divorce, I don't have to care anymore...and he's not allowed to.

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:22 PM
I was trying to just ignore him but he just showed up uninvited and unannounced .... guess he's gonna make me be the bad guy.... again.

no photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:23 PM
What did he want?

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/23/09 09:59 PM
He was just in the area... frustrated

He got a job right by my house when he lives over an hour away.... slaphead


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Sun 08/23/09 10:02 PM

He was just in the area... frustrated

He got a job right by my house when he lives over an hour away.... slaphead




Oh nice....

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/23/09 10:06 PM
Yeah I had a different word in mind whoa

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 08/23/09 10:09 PM
well hopefully he won't do the "show up" thing anymore...

no photo
Sun 08/23/09 10:10 PM

Yeah I had a different word in mind whoa


LOL, yeah but we have to be mindful of the censors,laugh laugh laugh flowerforyou Maybe it won't be so bad, maybe he'll move on.

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/23/09 10:18 PM
Oh no now he's texting me all upset asking why I told our mutual friend to tell him not to come over here anymore. Apparently even now that we are broken up I should still put his feelings before mine.... me being upset is not nearly as important as me being his friend?!?

I told him I will not accept a faux friendship from someone who proves to me time and time again that he is the only person he gives a crap about

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 08/23/09 10:27 PM
Don't let it get to you Myka... It's called manipulation....

msmyka's photo
Sun 08/23/09 10:29 PM
Oh trust me I know, its sad that he thinks he's clever enough to pull that on me.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 08/23/09 10:31 PM
most manipulators do... i.e. some you know that were in my life...

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