you're very brave

MMMMMMMMM yes younger than me

For me, it's immaturity that's the deal breaker. But not all young people are immature nor are all older people mature. As far as the physical side of intimacy - much of that hinges on attitude.

To me age doesnt matter, because i look older then i really am, and i like all men

I would like some in their 50's. I figure then we at least have a few things in common. I don't get the young ones trying, Like I wanted a kid around I wouldn't have raised mine to fly the coop when they were able. I sure don't want to go from the honeyingmoon to the nurseing home either. Yeesh!

meh. most people will say it doesnt matter but when my 40 year old roommate hit on my 20 year old sister i turned into a complete b itch and threatened him.

told him to stay the hell away from my sister. i had gotten the worst vibe from him the moment he did that and ended up moving out after i found out some very nasty things about him.

sure age matters, but also variety is the spice of life!

so while relationships will vary based on the age
difference, they will also vary based on the personalities,
preferences, flexibility and imagination of the two
involved. in the end, it is the overall match.

and so - if you care for them and they care for you then
age becomes almost completely irrelevant.

I'm beginning to re-think this whole age thing. I'm finding that the men (most) around my age are in another world of their own, sticks in the mud and kind of spaced out. The younger men seem to be more interested, email more...much more and are quick witted and fun. So there.

age is no problem,what is in the mind matters,at least that is
how i see things.

I think It's a question that is based in culture and circumstance. There are some tribes in africa where a girl is considered a woman at age 8 and can marry. In my own country of the United States our history in the past has had people getting married at ages 10 and 11, understandable if you consider the mortality rate of the old west.

I prefer guys at least 10 years younger than myself, simply because I don't look or feel my age. But then again its all about how he makes you feel.

I like

No love

My age or older!!


Love their experience

Their wisdom

Their sex drive

I hate peach fuzzz!!!!

i've always been mostly attracted to those around the same age as me as i've found that we both have already been through the same stages and experiences and there's no wanting to try this or do that.

however, i have dated as much as 15 years my senior and about 10 my junior so there's no law set in stone. it really boils down to chemistry and rapport, to me anyway.

I'm going to start quoting that - with your permission.

I used to think it mattered, I don't really know anymore. I've dated someone 10 years older and (gasp) twenty years younger (I know, I know, but I was set up, it wasn't my fault). The older lady thought I was too young (it was a few years back), and well, I thought the younger lady was a little too young. Am I willing to do either again? You bet.

Every person here should at least be smart enough to realize that everyone is a little different. It doesn't matter what a persons age is, I know men who are 40 that act 15, and I know 20 year olds that act like retirees (though the latter are harder to find). Age is a state of mind not a number you can count like rings on a tree. If you are into someone, go for it. What difference does age make? If they are stimulating you physically, mentally and emotionally, why not take a chance? It could turn out to be the best thing you've done.