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Topic: If You Love Someone Too Much
Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Tue 08/18/09 02:09 PM
If you love a midget set it free if it comes back to you play midget toss!!

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Tue 08/18/09 02:10 PM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Tue 08/18/09 02:10 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Tue 08/18/09 02:12 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me. If you both share the same philosophy then neither of you will ever get past being friends.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 08/18/09 02:12 PM
It's too much if it extends to obsession, stalking, or other "creepy" behavior. If it's healthy love, it can't be too much, but if it becomes weird in some way, yeah, it's best to step back and really evaluate yourself.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 08/18/09 02:12 PM
If you love a midget set it free if it comes back to you play midget toss!! LOL

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/18/09 02:17 PM
"hold on loosely, but don't let go..if ya try to hard your gonna lose it" 38 Special. I have this on vinyl....

Modela Joined Fri 09/19/08 Posts: 2535	Tue 08/18/09 02:18 PM
If you feel like you love someone too much, should you take a step back and try and become more distant,or just carry on and be open? just carry on and be open? As if getting naked?

Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507	Tue 08/18/09 02:20 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me. I guess it depends on wat ur idea of love means. Love to me is unconditional, its free, and there r no limits to how much i feel or want to show love. Extending ur love, as u put it, might be viewed as obsessional, and thats not loving someone imo.

Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Tue 08/18/09 02:21 PM
If you feel like you love someone too much, should you take a step back and try and become more distant,or just carry on and be open? If you know she feels the same way about you, well then CARRY ON CAPTAIN!!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/18/09 02:27 PM
If you love a midget set it free if it comes back to you play midget toss!!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/18/09 02:31 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/18/09 02:35 PM
If you feel like you love someone too much, should you take a step back and try and become more distant,or just carry on and be open? just carry on and be open? As if getting naked?

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Tue 08/18/09 02:37 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me. If you both share the same philosophy then neither of you will ever get past being friends. Not true, its obvious there is give and take otherwise you wouldnt have gotten into a relationship. Helloooo! But if you find that your extending, and putting your hand over a flame like a little child and you find, HOT!! HURTS!! If your retarded, and insane, and continue, you are just hurting yourself. I didnt think Id have to explain that but.. There ya go. ok so here.. IF YOU FIND THAT YOUR EXTENDING YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON ISNT, YOU DONT CONTINUE. It takes ONCE for me to figure that out, not 100.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Tue 08/18/09 02:40 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me. I guess it depends on wat ur idea of love means. Love to me is unconditional, its free, and there r no limits to how much i feel or want to show love. Extending ur love, as u put it, might be viewed as obsessional, and thats not loving someone imo. Oh no, my love is NOT unconditional for everyone. There are boundries for SURE. its bizarre you even got any idea of obsession. An obsession would be more imo having no conditions.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/18/09 02:42 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me. I guess it depends on wat ur idea of love means. Love to me is unconditional, its free, and there r no limits to how much i feel or want to show love. Extending ur love, as u put it, might be viewed as obsessional, and thats not loving someone imo.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/18/09 02:45 PM
It's too much if it extends to obsession, stalking, or other "creepy" behavior. If it's healthy love, it can't be too much, but if it becomes weird in some way, yeah, it's best to step back and really evaluate yourself.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 08/18/09 02:49 PM
I seem to have no problem distancing myself from love

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Tue 08/18/09 02:52 PM Edited by tngxl65 on Tue 08/18/09 02:52 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me. If you both share the same philosophy then neither of you will ever get past being friends. Not true, its obvious there is give and take otherwise you wouldnt have gotten into a relationship. Helloooo! But if you find that your extending, and putting your hand over a flame like a little child and you find, HOT!! HURTS!! If your retarded, and insane, and continue, you are just hurting yourself. I didnt think Id have to explain that but.. There ya go. ok so here.. IF YOU FIND THAT YOUR EXTENDING YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON ISNT, YOU DONT CONTINUE. It takes ONCE for me to figure that out, not 100. You didn't have to explain it. I was pointing out the result of the situation that you described and I do see happen. When neither one is willing to risk a little then the relationship never advances. But if, as you mention, you risk in small measures and the other meets you, you move forward slowly. Which, honestly, is probably the best way for a relationship to advance.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 08/18/09 07:03 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me. I guess it depends on wat ur idea of love means. Love to me is unconditional, its free, and there r no limits to how much i feel or want to show love. Extending ur love, as u put it, might be viewed as obsessional, and thats not loving someone imo. Oh no, my love is NOT unconditional for everyone. There are boundries for SURE. its bizarre you even got any idea of obsession. An obsession would be more imo having no conditions. Have you personally experienced that?

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 08/19/09 08:34 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs. Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love. I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me. If you both share the same philosophy then neither of you will ever get past being friends. Not true, its obvious there is give and take otherwise you wouldnt have gotten into a relationship. Helloooo! But if you find that your extending, and putting your hand over a flame like a little child and you find, HOT!! HURTS!! If your retarded, and insane, and continue, you are just hurting yourself. I didnt think Id have to explain that but.. There ya go. ok so here.. IF YOU FIND THAT YOUR EXTENDING YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON ISNT, YOU DONT CONTINUE. It takes ONCE for me to figure that out, not 100. You didn't have to explain it. I was pointing out the result of the situation that you described and I do see happen. When neither one is willing to risk a little then the relationship never advances. But if, as you mention, you risk in small measures and the other meets you, you move forward slowly. Which, honestly, is probably the best way for a relationship to advance.