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Topic: If You Love Someone Too Much
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Tue 08/18/09 02:09 PM
If you love a midget

set it free

if it comes back to you

play midget toss!!scared

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:10 PM
Edited by earthytaurus76 on Tue 08/18/09 02:10 PM
My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.

tngxl65's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:12 PM

My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.


If you both share the same philosophy then neither of you will ever get past being friends.

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Tue 08/18/09 02:12 PM
It's too much if it extends to obsession, stalking, or other "creepy" behavior. If it's healthy love, it can't be too much, but if it becomes weird in some way, yeah, it's best to step back and really evaluate yourself.

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Tue 08/18/09 02:12 PM

If you love a midget

set it free

if it comes back to you

play midget toss!!scared


LOLflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:17 PM


"hold on loosely, but don't let go..if ya try to hard your gonna lose it" :heart:


38 Special. I have this on vinyl....smokin
drinks

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Tue 08/18/09 02:18 PM




:heart:If you feel like you love someone too much, should you take a step back and try and become more distant,or just carry on and be open?:heart:

just carry on and be open?
As if getting naked?laugh laugh

Pink_lady's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:20 PM

My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.


I guess it depends on wat ur idea of love means.

Love to me is unconditional, its free, and there r no limits to how much i feel or want to show love. Extending ur love, as u put it, might be viewed as obsessional, and thats not loving someone imo.

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Tue 08/18/09 02:21 PM




:heart:If you feel like you love someone too much, should you take a step back and try and become more distant,or just carry on and be open?:heart:


If you know she feels the same way about you, well then
CARRY ON CAPTAIN!!!

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:27 PM

If you love a midget

set it free

if it comes back to you

play midget toss!!scared
laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:31 PM

My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:35 PM





:heart:If you feel like you love someone too much, should you take a step back and try and become more distant,or just carry on and be open?:heart:

just carry on and be open?
As if getting naked?laugh laugh
laugh laugh laugh laugh

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:37 PM


My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.


If you both share the same philosophy then neither of you will ever get past being friends.


Not true, its obvious there is give and take otherwise you wouldnt have gotten into a relationship. Helloooo! But if you find that your extending, and putting your hand over a flame like a little child and you find, HOT!! HURTS!! If your retarded, and insane, and continue, you are just hurting yourself. I didnt think Id have to explain that but.. There ya go.

ok so here.. IF YOU FIND THAT YOUR EXTENDING YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON ISNT, YOU DONT CONTINUE.

It takes ONCE for me to figure that out, not 100.

earthytaurus76's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:40 PM


My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.


I guess it depends on wat ur idea of love means.

Love to me is unconditional, its free, and there r no limits to how much i feel or want to show love. Extending ur love, as u put it, might be viewed as obsessional, and thats not loving someone imo.


Oh no, my love is NOT unconditional for everyone. There are boundries for SURE.

its bizarre you even got any idea of obsession. An obsession would be more imo having no conditions.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:42 PM


My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.


I guess it depends on wat ur idea of love means.

Love to me is unconditional, its free, and there r no limits to how much i feel or want to show love. Extending ur love, as u put it, might be viewed as obsessional, and thats not loving someone imo.
flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 02:45 PM

It's too much if it extends to obsession, stalking, or other "creepy" behavior. If it's healthy love, it can't be too much, but if it becomes weird in some way, yeah, it's best to step back and really evaluate yourself.
flowerforyou

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Tue 08/18/09 02:49 PM
smokin I seem to have no problem distancing myself from lovesmokin

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Tue 08/18/09 02:52 PM
Edited by tngxl65 on Tue 08/18/09 02:52 PM



My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.


If you both share the same philosophy then neither of you will ever get past being friends.


Not true, its obvious there is give and take otherwise you wouldnt have gotten into a relationship. Helloooo! But if you find that your extending, and putting your hand over a flame like a little child and you find, HOT!! HURTS!! If your retarded, and insane, and continue, you are just hurting yourself. I didnt think Id have to explain that but.. There ya go.

ok so here.. IF YOU FIND THAT YOUR EXTENDING YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON ISNT, YOU DONT CONTINUE.

It takes ONCE for me to figure that out, not 100.


You didn't have to explain it. I was pointing out the result of the situation that you described and I do see happen. When neither one is willing to risk a little then the relationship never advances. But if, as you mention, you risk in small measures and the other meets you, you move forward slowly. Which, honestly, is probably the best way for a relationship to advance. flowerforyou


MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 08/18/09 07:03 PM



My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.


I guess it depends on wat ur idea of love means.

Love to me is unconditional, its free, and there r no limits to how much i feel or want to show love. Extending ur love, as u put it, might be viewed as obsessional, and thats not loving someone imo.


Oh no, my love is NOT unconditional for everyone. There are boundries for SURE.

its bizarre you even got any idea of obsession. An obsession would be more imo having no conditions.




flowerforyou Have you personally experienced that?flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/19/09 08:34 PM




My first instinct is to say you can never love too much, but Ive learned thats bs.

Love is an action word as well. I say yes.. you cant love too much in your heart, but, you CAN love too much as in extending your love.


I have a rule to never extend myself any further than soemone extends themselves to me.


If you both share the same philosophy then neither of you will ever get past being friends.


Not true, its obvious there is give and take otherwise you wouldnt have gotten into a relationship. Helloooo! But if you find that your extending, and putting your hand over a flame like a little child and you find, HOT!! HURTS!! If your retarded, and insane, and continue, you are just hurting yourself. I didnt think Id have to explain that but.. There ya go.

ok so here.. IF YOU FIND THAT YOUR EXTENDING YOURSELF AND THE OTHER PERSON ISNT, YOU DONT CONTINUE.

It takes ONCE for me to figure that out, not 100.


You didn't have to explain it. I was pointing out the result of the situation that you described and I do see happen. When neither one is willing to risk a little then the relationship never advances. But if, as you mention, you risk in small measures and the other meets you, you move forward slowly. Which, honestly, is probably the best way for a relationship to advance. flowerforyou


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