If the guy is on this site, tell her "have him email me" and see what happens
If she's telling you to go to a different address, then its a trick

yeah i've had a few of them 'referrals' too

I did from a friend. But not anyone I didn't know.

i dont want any email like that.... the last guy i talked to for 6 months turned out to be a big liar.... so no thanks.

oh good god woman i get it a lot from complete strangers doing their 'bit' for gays

WOW..everyone wants to set the gay man up

Why wouldn't this friend tell there friend about you and have him email you. Sounds kinda like passing a note in the 4th grade. Be careful he may poke you with a pencil or pull on your pigtails......

poke me with a pencil... gawd, ya could put an eye out.

I think someone trying matchmaking off site would be a real RED FLAG for me.

I would think it is a violation of use agreements also.

Have I ever pointed out a profile to someone? Only because I thought they had a good profile with good photos to use as a model with the person's permission.

Years ago when I used to entertain a lot only very rarely have I seen mutual personal relationships develope and thrive when influenced by a third party. I would not dream of thinking I could know someone well enough via the computer to recommend them matching.

I personally believe adults should find their own dates .

Hahahaha!!!!!!!!!!! Im 'pimping' for a friend on here, with her permission!


We are both having fun with it...if they 'click'...that's up to THEM...

I'm just the pimp.

I sent an email to a guy once that said you should be introduced to my sister... LOL after reading his profile, I knew he was meant for her! He never responded to me, go figure! LOL

Yeah, same here....I would welcome a little help!!

I'm thinking maybe..
after reading his profile and mine I can see where someone would think there might be a match, some similarities, same interests, spiritual edge. Just curious how she found me I guess.

hmmm, never a referral letter, but on another site that i was a member, there used to be a function where one profiler could match another, and you'd get a little 'flame' in your inbox indicating who it was, and who sent it.

one person sent me a match, but i'd never spoken to either of them before so i don't know if it was just a joke, or an accident.

That never happened to me.

Sounds to me like she has to much time on her hands. If, however she led you to a profile YOU find interesting, what cold an email hurt? All in all though I would proceed with caution I think.

Doing their bit for gays!

i know, vile isn't it?

Especially since you never see anyone doing their "bit" for reclusive authors....it's a helluva world what we live in, huh?

Its me