someone asked on this thread what a "real" man was...

a real man steps up to his responsibilities, takes things in stride, and
doesn't get bent outta shape over the little things, (that's a woman's
job, we tend to stress over little things often)

a real man, can open the door for you, or not, and still be ok with it.

a real man, radiates confidence, smiles often, has interests outside the
relationship, and is not controling demanding, or selfish.

a real man, can hold your hand when you feel the world has beaten you up
and feel hurt

a real man, can reassure you in whatever you do, so you feel better

a real man, can accept you for you, your needs, your mood swings and
your other emotions


im sure there's more, but those are at the top of my head right now